"not liking women he insults them and worse, he would like to discourage those who love them"
We used to talk all the time but now look at us...
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet yeah I let that information escapes naturally, only now I perceived.
And btw look at the positive side, if you need to find 100 friends to find 3 true friends, is totally worth it, because 3 friends that are with you, and give their time to you, and understand your opinion without says but everytime, is better, and is less pressure in your head , like handle 100 people. -
That @DennisJM I can totally appreciate.
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@Rissa_TheBest heeyo I'm sorry lmao ur a great mate
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@Rissa_TheBest I don't have so much word now. I am shocked now, bcz I was also thinking about last night.
What I think or what I feel, when you start talking to a stranger here or anywhere else online there are lots of thing to know, after sometime where the person become a good friend, they don't wanna loose you, then you think about happiness and sadness of the person. They don't talk too much because then think some how I will hurt you Unknowingly and other point of view maybe, they think the other side of person is also interest you to talk now ??
Bcz online, we can't feel other side what is happening, so maybe it's a precautions... -
@JamesBond007 happened something bro?
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@James-C-137 Why are you saying sorry for no reason?😂I don't recall you doing anything wrong
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Rissa hey
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@BittuDeep Hello
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So I wonder what people would discover if everyone spoke openly and said what they really feel.
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet I personally think some people would get hurt if people always said what they feel, and some might just be happy because what everyone the person thinks is positive.
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet depending of the people I can say that some extremes can happen, like one side happy and another sad, and humans will lose the grey part that is necessary, like a balance of feelings
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The truth is there is a positive way to say anything... most people are just to cold...
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I believe we should all learn to properly learn to word and accept the truth... i this way hurt is limited.
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet imagine as first pure chaos and later the utopia, would be like that, human beings are too emotional and when feel sad or Angry at something can trigger the negative side of some, and withy feelings being so exposed, this can be multiplied
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@DennisJM this is true, but if mankind never tries we will continue to entangle each other in a web of dysfunctional emotion and place each other in boxes that do not fit our true potential.
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet this goes to a deeper topic, and I don't think that is the point of this now, but I can tell, that since that humans exists, selfishness exists too, and this is the biggest obstacle to make that utopia happens
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@Rissa_TheBest said in We used to talk all the time but now look at us...:
You know when you meet someone here and you become best friends, a couple days later they don't even feel like texting you? that drives me crazy, like why stop talking to a person just because you become more popular. Now anyone can relate tell me how yall feel when it happens to you.
I don't think there is anything wrong with talking to people and being friends for a time. It's like you are giving love to them, and they are giving love to you, but you don't have to stay who you are together forever. So everything has a time.
However there are friends in a deeper sense of the word too, people you will remain connected with forever. We desire those kinds of friendships, but those do require us to be capable of them too.
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@Nosnikda-Life-Poet said in We used to talk all the time but now look at us...:
Well to be honest, it would be inappropriate. If you have someone under 18 they have not really experienced life. The real question is what would you expect from them. Yet, history has shown where arranged marriages have happened and many times it was adult men with girls as young as 14. Not sure how I would respond to that.
Humanity can grow too, or revert to it's more primitive or childish ways. Right now humanity seems to be reverting...
By growth I mean though, that we are understanding human psyche better and do understand better what it means to mature. We now know that children are not capable of understanding the depth of marriage, of this relationship, at least on average they don't. Also teenagers don't really understand love yet, they only have emotions and strong desires. They seldomly know what it means to give yourself.
Ergo, we – most of humanity – have grown to understand that love needs a certain level of maturity, and thus we don't allow children to marry anymore.
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@Rissa_TheBest said in We used to talk all the time but now look at us...:
You know when you meet someone here and you become best friends, a couple days later they don't even feel like texting you? that drives me crazy, like why stop talking to a person just because you become more popular. Now anyone can relate tell me how yall feel when it happens to you.
oh and let's not forget, that TWS does lose private messages sometimes :joy: