Honestly though I have not been making friends. People are complicated. I mean they are fickle. These days everyone wants you to agree with them 100%. I am my own person so I don't always agree with everyone. Friendship should be about acceptance of differences not over powering thought.
Nosnikda Life-Poet
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RE: We used to talk all the time but now look at us...
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RE: We used to talk all the time but now look at us...
I tell you to be honest it feels like rejection at its worst. Strange though if a person was a friend to me why would they not want to speak to me, unless they were never really my friend
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That is exactly what I am saying @Rissa_TheBest. I don't think anyone can agree with you 100% of the time. Not family, not people you are in relationship with. Heck sometimes you don't even agree with self. lol
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Well, that is the beauty of humanity. You are able to change your mind. Think about it @Rissa_TheBest have you changed how you felt about somethings from a year ago. If so, you disagreed with yourself. Life changes and as it changes as people we should be able to make our decisions on where we stand with it. With that many times we lose friends. But if they were friends they should at least explain what changed their mind about the friendship
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What do you mean @Rissa_TheBest . What will last forever?
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The question is, do you want it to end. I have not made friends in a while, but I would be open to your friendship.
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Well, the question is will it end or will it evolve... Many people can't evolve with a conversation because they are one dimensional.... But you are authentic and well rounded. I believe we could travel the waves of intuitive conversation on many levels.
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Now this is a truth in factor... and yet, that only meets the standards of society. Relationships have no boundaries. accept well if an adult dates a kid. Now that is sick. I figure though that after you are 19 and over you get to make your own choices and society has no say so. So if I were to see a 19 year old with a 50 year old. I figure that is their business.
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Remember love takes both sides to develop. Otherwise its just a difficult situation. Communication is key. Mutual understanding is required.
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@Sarah-A-R Is it that easy to stop texting right away. Is it possible you at least want to remain friends?
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@DennisJM this is true, but if mankind never tries we will continue to entangle each other in a web of dysfunctional emotion and place each other in boxes that do not fit our true potential.
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I believe we should all learn to properly learn to word and accept the truth... i this way hurt is limited.
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The truth is there is a positive way to say anything... most people are just to cold...
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So I wonder what people would discover if everyone spoke openly and said what they really feel.
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That @DennisJM I can totally appreciate.
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Again this is why I do not often make friends. Most become passing associates
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Well, to be honest I figured you too were connected in some way. You knew she was asleep. lol
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What gives you the impression I would perceive something. Besides my ability to decipher information
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That is awesome @DennisJM the two of you seem to meld well together....
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thank you @sololight, that makes me feel quite happy