Posts made by Nosnikda Life-Poet

@DennisJM this is true, but if mankind never tries we will continue to entangle each other in a web of dysfunctional emotion and place each other in boxes that do not fit our true potential.

I believe we should all learn to properly learn to word and accept the truth... i this way hurt is limited.

The truth is there is a positive way to say anything... most people are just to cold...

So I wonder what people would discover if everyone spoke openly and said what they really feel.

That @DennisJM I can totally appreciate.

Again this is why I do not often make friends. Most become passing associates

Well, to be honest I figured you too were connected in some way. You knew she was asleep. lol

What gives you the impression I would perceive something. Besides my ability to decipher information

That is awesome @DennisJM the two of you seem to meld well together....

thank you @sololight, that makes me feel quite happy

You are right @sololight making friends is good for all. Yet, there was a time when I personally had gone to a deep low. I stopped reaching outwardly. I am difficult as well. I am one those deep thinkers that says exactly what I feel. I do not fit in to most arenas...

I call it the microwave lifestyle. people want everything right now. The matters of the heart take time to take root. Plus you need time to learn what you like or dislike about a person

The worst is when you have a two part question, but the person you are talking to simply says no so you have to ask and clarify....

Dah dah dah

the worst is because many do not want to text much, they shorten their responses so you get partial information. Then when you ask them to explain that take so long to answer that the translation has already been damaged.

Go right ahead here. She will join soon. this will boost her original discussion

It is quite possible. I am the worlds greatest night owl. lol. Not many can keep up.

What I like about @Rissa_TheBest is that you really engage a conversation and really defend your argument. I could swap thoughts with you for hours.

@DennisJM that is exactly the point. We have been taught that to come right out and say something to someone is being too forward or even worse we are nervous because we have been taught to fear rejection by society. Its better to say what is on your heart and mind, get a yes or no, then move on. Even if the answer is no, you realize the person is not for you and you can move on with life.

These days its even more difficult, because if a person doesn't come out and say what they mean right out, because people text instead of face to face all the time, well you can get misleading information.