I'd like to tell anyone who is struggling to find a reason to carry on; Think of a memory. Think of a time in your life when you were truly happy, no matter how how big or small that moment was, dwell on it. Now think of a time in your life when things were worse than they are for you now, a time when you thought there was nary a chance to come through it in one piece. let it pass through your mind for a moment. Think back to people you have loved, who have loved you in return, regardless of where they are now, take a moment to analyze your triumphs and your failures. understand that no matter what happens in life, you have to keep the goodness from your past held strong in your heart, and carry that joy with you in the darkest of shadows, You need to look back on the events in your life that just about broke you in two, and draw strength from that. You are still here, You're still fighting, even if you don't want to, even if you feel like you cant. embrace that fighting spirit. and turn your pain into motivation, channel all that emotion into a fuel for your will. and keep in mind. there have been times in your life where you knew joy, and those days will return, especially if you FIGHT for them. life doesn't get easier. I wish I could say that it does, but that would be a lie. The difference lies with you. You get better at handling the hardship, and eventually, events that almost broke you will seem like no big deal, so long as you keep striving to do better. the last thing i'd like to say; You can only rely on yourself at the end of the day. Learn to love yourself, accept your flaws, and change the things that are in your power to change. You have to accept yourself for who you are, because you cant break up with, nor cut ties with yourself. you have to accept every mistake and shortcoming and love yourself unconditionally. on top of that, you most likely have people that love you, that need you in this world, and would never be the same without you. You can make it through this, even if you are at your lowest, for if that's the case, the only way to go is up.
Have you ever been hurt by someone you loved so much?
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@MillieBee you didn’t seem to bee yesterday...and other stuff I don’t wanna mention rn
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@Escanor_ hurts doesn't it?
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Whoever it is, imma try to be happy for you. All the best
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@MillieBee No not at all!!🙏love is unconditional, should do it selflessly with out like and dislikes, this the way I know to love.
By the way it's you get hurt for yourself and no one is hurting you, you are feeling it for yourself as hurt so I do not understand what you talking about?? Can you explain how you getting hurt ?? -
@MillieBee I love someone she is on this site but she said she doesn't like my presence... that thing hurts 🥺
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@SamirisDead cover the face and get ?
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@knownsense Uhhhhhhhh dude be serious!
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@SamirisDead very very serious !! I do not know how to be one ??
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@knownsense when I will happen to you then you will understand!
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@SamirisDead ok. I wait for that one day !!
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@SamirisDead i'm sorry Sam :(
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I really really miss her real fucking bad😔
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@MillieBee Don't be sorry 😖😖
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@MillieBee yes. But it was the type of person that honestly was mentally slow which is not a problem it's just that they never realize they do anything wrong. You have to point out their mistake down to a T and even then they will argue that they did nothing.
Any way I took the toxic route and gave the broody silent treatment. We made up after I wrote a letter that explained everything (and three back to back pages covered everything and more).But after a few more same incidents it hit me that we were not only different (which sometimes is what makes a friendship) but we could never see eye to eye because I was ahead of that person by milestones in awareness (not a brag, actually sucks) and that person could never change his/her way of thought because of fear.
Now we still chat occasionally but we drifted apart. Man. Sorry if I went off topic.
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Yup been completely disrespected by my partner since they weren't thinking about what my needs were just their own. Almost cost a 8 year relationship
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@MillieBee yeah so much
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@MillieBee said in Have you ever been hurt by someone you loved so much?:
Have you ever been hurt by someone you loved and trusted? If yes, how did you deal with it?
Yes. And for dealing with it I found distraction
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@MillieBee there's some serious shit going here....I guess I missed alot 😂
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@MillieBee yep and it wS just recently
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my g/f once tried to kill herself in front of me and her kid. try living with that image