@SuperStressef sounds like me and my first wife. I did the same to her as your husband has done to you...and the truth is...I didn't really love her properly...I was just afraid to be alone.
Have you ever been hurt by someone you loved so much?
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@MillieBee you didn’t seem to bee yesterday...and other stuff I don’t wanna mention rn
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@Escanor_ hurts doesn't it?
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Whoever it is, imma try to be happy for you. All the best
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@MillieBee No not at all!!🙏love is unconditional, should do it selflessly with out like and dislikes, this the way I know to love.
By the way it's you get hurt for yourself and no one is hurting you, you are feeling it for yourself as hurt so I do not understand what you talking about?? Can you explain how you getting hurt ?? -
@MillieBee I love someone she is on this site but she said she doesn't like my presence... that thing hurts 🥺
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@SamirisDead cover the face and get ?
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@knownsense Uhhhhhhhh dude be serious!
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@SamirisDead very very serious !! I do not know how to be one ??
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@knownsense when I will happen to you then you will understand!
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@SamirisDead ok. I wait for that one day !!
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@SamirisDead i'm sorry Sam :(
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I really really miss her real fucking bad😔
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@MillieBee Don't be sorry 😖😖
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@MillieBee yes. But it was the type of person that honestly was mentally slow which is not a problem it's just that they never realize they do anything wrong. You have to point out their mistake down to a T and even then they will argue that they did nothing.
Any way I took the toxic route and gave the broody silent treatment. We made up after I wrote a letter that explained everything (and three back to back pages covered everything and more).But after a few more same incidents it hit me that we were not only different (which sometimes is what makes a friendship) but we could never see eye to eye because I was ahead of that person by milestones in awareness (not a brag, actually sucks) and that person could never change his/her way of thought because of fear.
Now we still chat occasionally but we drifted apart. Man. Sorry if I went off topic.
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Yup been completely disrespected by my partner since they weren't thinking about what my needs were just their own. Almost cost a 8 year relationship
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@MillieBee yeah so much
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@MillieBee said in Have you ever been hurt by someone you loved so much?:
Have you ever been hurt by someone you loved and trusted? If yes, how did you deal with it?
Yes. And for dealing with it I found distraction
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@MillieBee there's some serious shit going here....I guess I missed alot 😂
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@MillieBee yep and it wS just recently
But it's not like I didn't do some hurting that led to it -
my g/f once tried to kill herself in front of me and her kid. try living with that image