Wow!That's quite the debate 🌹
how much is too much regarding age gaps in relationships?
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hi im 2o
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@abw422 just do whatever you feel like is best. it’s not for us to decide. nick jonas’s wife is 11 years older than him and they look so prefect together.
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@Ashley546 where do u live
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@Ashley546 where do u live?
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@Ashley546 where do u live?
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@sami119 canada...
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Ok......
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U look like 19 yr old🤣🤣🤣
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@sami119 lol i get that a lot
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@Ashley546 again. if she and he are able to concent and know what they are getting into ...go for it. FU to what anyone else thinks. when i was in my 20s i "dated" a 13? yr old. hell she could have even been 12. she lied about her age 3 times anyway. wanna know something? i didnt even look at her as a sex toy. i just liked the fact some young girl worshipped me and had me on her mind every damn minute. no pedo shit. we never even kissed. we simply talked on the phone and hung out. for her it was just being around an older guy paying her attention. but i soon realized. age can matter when there is nothign there to talk about. cute googly eyes can only go so far. so i dont worry about age but there HAS to be something there to last
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@mikeJB yeah i completely agree with you, age shouldnt stop love lol
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@mikeJB can you pls follow me
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@Ashley546 you have to follow me in order to chst from what your settings say
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@Ashley546 you should try it, as long as you are 16 or over, I have been with a couple of 18 year old girls and they both loved it
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As long as both characters work well with each other i dont mind older or younger guys, as long as we are in the legal range of course.
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@Ashley546 said in how much is too much regarding age gaps in relationships?:
im 15 lol
Ashley, sorry to burst in, but why haven't you asked anybody of your family about this?
You ARE minor, has "he" asked you not to talk to anybody of your entourage?
At LEAST, at the very LEAST, tell somebody who is an adult about this, it can be a teacher if you don't feel comfortable with your family, BUT tell an adult about it, I do not know, some figure who can at least check this "man" out.You are FIFTEEN, you say your "relationship" is with someone who is over many years over your own age.
And you say you haven't spoken of this with anybody in your family.
Next thing, you will find yourself in some rotten place in other country.
Better to be scared, than sorry.
If it was up to me, I'd denounce the bastard immediately. I know not in which country you are, and I know some costumes differ, and arranged marriages and such are often perpetrated in those ages, and even lesser ones, but still, you claim to be 15. And, for the look of what you write, "he" is older than eighteen, and by a long shot.
If it is "he" whom advised you, or even simply Tried to insInuate to "keep this between yourselves", YOU MUST contact your family AND the Police IMMEDIATELY.
DO NOT PLAY WITH THESE THINGS ASHLEY.
YOU TRUST THE WRONG "PERSON", AND IN THESE CASES, ALMOST ALWAYS IT IS THE WRONG ONE, & YOU'LL BE SORRY FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. TELL THIS TO SOME ADULT YOU TRUST. -
@welpthanks and you younger girls are amazing
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Wisdom, experience and mentality (for most) are going to be huge gaps... bigger than age even. Intellectual capacity and intelligence are pretty crucial for relationships. You or they will be greatly activated by that gap as well as maturity. Then there's the issue of common ground and compatibility. Long as ya ain't chatting up a paedophile ya may have a small chance...
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@abw422 In your case it really depends on the guy, his maturity and what he would be seeking from the relationship. Usually I'd agree with what others have already said - age means nothing when two people are right for each other and their affection is genuine, it tends to be others who make an issue of it and cause problems rather than the age being a problem in itself.
Personally I've never paid attention to the age of people I date. I've been ten years either way in the past and am currently in the early stages of a relationship with someone 17 years younger than me. I don't think of her as a 22-year old though; I see her for her interests, the things we have in common, and how she makes me laugh. If you find a relationship like that where you aren't thinking about ages either, you'll be just fine.
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This same fucking thing happened to me lol (*Same pinch)