If I was in your position, I'd ask her if we can an have a cool off or break up because I need time to figure out my true feelings. What you feel for her is also possibly being used to her company or comfort.
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@Eve12 np, your a wonderful person, im always here fro you, no matter what happens.
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I can help ๐
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Honestly girl, just realise that if you did all you could, then its not your fault. I have had this happen and frankly, it sucks. Big time. But keep your chin up and keep smiling girlie cause, you are gold. Solid gold. So time to treat yourself like it.:blue_heart:
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@AllAboutGay okay ๐
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@Vanie Noted, Vanie. Thank you โค๏ธ
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@Oblivion you're right. Channeling emotions into writing always helps. Thank you ๐๐
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@Kaneki-kun Well, thanks for your help :)
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@Sij thanks!! ๐
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@Eve12 said in Advice needed for something important:
@Kaneki-kun Well, thanks for your help :)
You're better now?
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@Kaneki-kun Yeah I actually am. Thanks for asking ๐
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@Eve12 any time girl <3
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@Eve12 Sure!
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Honestly its tough to loose a friend, if it isn't that friendship wasn't worth it. May be the context as to how you lost the trust makes it feel worse. Don't rush to normalize friendship, as human beings we may prefer to process things slowly. Apologise, then give them space as you reflect on yourself, why is their friendship important? Do they perceive your friendship with the same importance ? What will you be without that friendship, may be are there other things in your life stopped, may be its time to attend to them. If you're truly friends, you'll surely patch up once the dust settles.
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Suppose that you were sitting down at this table. The napkins are in front of you, which napkin would you take? The one on your โleftโ? Or the one on your โrightโ? The one on your left side? Or the one on your right side? Usually you would take the one on your left side. That is โcorrectโ too. But in a larger sense on society, that is wrong. Perhaps I could even substitute โsocietyโ with the โUniverseโ. The correct answer is that โIt is determined by the one who takes his or her own napkin first.โ โฆYes? If the first one takes the napkin to their right, then thereโs no choice but for others to also take the โrightโ napkin. The same goes for the left. Everyone else will take the napkin to their left, because they have no other option. This is โsocietyโโฆ Who are the ones that determine the price of land first? There must have been someone who determined the value of money, first. The size of the rails on a train track? The magnitude of electricity? Laws and Regulations? Who was the first to determine these things? Did we all do it, because this is a Republic? Or was it Arbitrary? NO! The one who took the napkin first determined all of these things! The rules of this world are determined by that same principle of โright or left?โ! In a Society like this table, a state of equilibrium, once one makes the first move, everyone must follow! In every era, this World has been operating by this napkin principle. And the one who โtakes the napkin firstโ must be someone who is respected by all. Itโs not that anyone can fulfill this roleโฆ Those that are despotic or unworthy will be scorned. And those are the โlosersโ. In the case of this table, the โeldestโ or the โMaster of the partyโ will take the napkin firstโฆ Because everyone โrespectsโ those individuals.
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I have to meet a quota.
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go beep beep like a sheep
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Sure no relation...but am blown. It is true but in many instances that precedence does help...imagine the person who first died of poisoning..there was no poison before..good points..โ
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@Eve12 It's really hard to find a way out of this case, I'm in the same situation as you.
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@SchizoidDevil WHAT?!