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Would you rather be smart but not too beautiful? Or beautiful but not too smart?
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@cjko that depends on who you ask usually, but no i don't believe it holds much weight as we are all of the same divine essence underneath all the labels and "worth" we place on ourselves and others.
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@Rayse hmm yeah we see things differently and so we like or hate people based on our perspective
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@cjko beautiful but not too smart :shrug:
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@DarkIce69 hmm why?
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What most people don't realize when they read a question like that is that this is not about being superficial or not. Because wether you like someone for their looks or their brains, you like them for their body. Nobody made himself smart. You can only make yourself stupid. And people don't make themselves beautiful either (I find almost all results of cosmetic surgery downright ugly).
I would chose something entirely different: the ability to connect... What we need is neither beauty nor smarts, we need meaning in our lives... and these things cannot give meaning.
So that said, I believe it to be stupid, to deselect someone for their looks or their brains. All people are crazily interesting, if you only know how to listen. The criteria to chose the people around you should be: are they good for you or not. And then, if you became strong enough, you might try to help one or another of those who are "not good for you"...
But I most be honest too. I could not be with a girl I don't find attractive. I don't buy into beauty ideals though, I cannot really define what I find attractive, but I have found very very different women attractive in my life... The reason simply being, that she would see that in my eyes, and it would hurt the relationship. But thank god people are different and like different things, so that's not really a problem...
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@pe7erpark3r The best answer so far.
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@Karina-Kara said in Would you rather be smart but not too beautiful? Or beautiful but not too smart?:
@pe7erpark3r The best answer so far.
Why thank you :heart_eyes:
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@pe7erpark3r wow. Yeah.. true , I agree. No matter how beautiful or smart the person is, if the ability to connect is absent it would be still unattractive. It's a rare skill indeed, you have to be good in listening and talking to someone for you to have that special kind of connection. If you found that someone, improve everything you can to make that person stay and the connection lasts
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@DarkIce69 I think this wish is already granted haha. Hello.
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I would rather be smart and beautiful 😍...just compromising too😛
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I'm already smart, I'm just not beautiful to most
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@Alte said in Would you rather be smart but not too beautiful? Or beautiful but not too smart?:
@DarkIce69 I think this wish is already granted haha. Hello.
haha lol....not at all...I'm just ugly...bcuz I've already lived the life of smart but not beautiful, I wanna live the life of beutiful but not smart...:joy: lol long time no see man
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I preff a gyal more smart than beautiful, but if i can i preff both :sweat_smile:
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WOuld be awesome to be both things.
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@F33 said in Would you rather be smart but not too beautiful? Or beautiful but not too smart?:
WOuld be awesome to be both things.
Yes, i feel very lucky cause i think my GF has both =)
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@cjko Possibly beauty even though I already look pretty (loll that confidence) but only because with experience brings intelligence while you'd probably have to pay a lot to look super pretty
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@Immortal haha why not? If you have that both, attitude will take part downward. Haha
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@LizzyO97 for me , you are smart and beautiful.. you have to believe that we have our unconventional beauties haha it may look ugly to most but it will always look great to the eyes of the people who truly loves you deep inside <3
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@DarkIce69 hahaha cheeky !
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@JuanLoveReggae that's cute.. <3