Reasons why relationships fail:



  • 1.PRIDE
    2.Still in love with his or her ex
    3.The other party is just in a rel. for pleasure and temporary fun

    What else? 🙂


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    @cjko
    Reasons why relationship fail

    1. Poor communication
    2. Lack of time
    3. Pride
    4. Lack of trust
    5. Sudden fall out love


  • Ok so, this may sound stupid and immature xD
    But what i believe is that relationships aren't supposed to last. Ever.
    Nature is only concerned with reproduction and propagation of genes. Nature want's us to move on and bang another to get more varied next generation.
    Animals don't get married. Neither are we supposed to.
    Now what makes people come together is either FRIENDSHIP or LUST.
    When both co-exist it's called "true love" i guess. Friendship can last forever but I'm not so sure about lust.
    So imho relationships are made to be broken.
    Do tell me what you think about it ~



  • Entering into a relationship for all the wrong reasons. When you have a false perception of the other person. That's pretty much why most of the relationships fail.


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    @cjko Relying on your partner for your happiness


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    @cjko

    • People being self centred and not giving to the partnership
    • lack of intimacy


  • @cjko As wiki says:
    The hedgehog's dilemma, or sometimes the porcupine dilemma, is a metaphor about the challenges of human intimacy. It describes a situation in which a group of hedgehogs seek to move close to one another to share heat during cold weather. They must remain apart, however, as they cannot avoid hurting one another with their sharp spines. Though they all share the intention of a close reciprocal relationship, this may not occur, for reasons they cannot avoid.


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    @kana said in Reasons why relationships fail::

    Ok so, this may sound stupid and immature (because i am)
    But what i believe is that relationships aren't supposed to last. Ever.
    Nature is only concerned with reproduction and propagation of genes. Nature want's us to move on and bang another to get more varied next generation.
    Animals don't get married. Neither are we supposed to.
    Now what makes people come together is either FRIENDSHIP or LUST.
    When both co-exist it's called "true love" i guess. Friendship can last forever but I'm not so sure about lust.
    So imho relationships are made to be broken.
    Do tell me what you think about it ~

    I see where your coming from with comments. I came to an epiphany years ago where I came to very similar opinions.

    The thing is though, it is nice to think that there is such a thing as true love and that it is out there for all of us somewhere. The way society is changing more & more I have begun to think that it's not out there for everyone.... but I still hope, since hope is what breads perseverance and perseverance leads to success.



  • @kana said in Reasons why relationships fail::

    Ok so, this may sound stupid and immature (because i am)
    But what i believe is that relationships aren't supposed to last. Ever.
    Nature is only concerned with reproduction and propagation of genes. Nature want's us to move on and bang another to get more varied next generation.
    Animals don't get married. Neither are we supposed to.
    Now what makes people come together is either FRIENDSHIP or LUST.
    When both co-exist it's called "true love" i guess. Friendship can last forever but I'm not so sure about lust.
    So imho relationships are made to be broken.
    Do tell me what you think about it ~

    I always believed that our bf/gf should be an upgraded version of our best friend. In order to love someone you 1st need to have some kind of bound with em. Lust or sexual attraction happens cuz of our nature, but I wanna believe there are more feelings behind it.



  • In retrospect, i would like to make a change in my statement xD.
    Relationships can last when friendship is strong enough to more than compensate for the loss(if at all) in lust. That's a true commitment then.

    @Mr-Peanut Hi5 about the enlightenment xD
    Imagining there's a true love out there for you is justified by the theory of probability xD
    If by societal changes you mean decreased rate of commitment, it is just because people are realising that sex is the real need, not love. Otherwise society was always the same as it is now, regarding love. Some people don't find a love due to problems in themselves, or bad luck(not having met the right kind of person).

    Yep hope is a good thing. May people persevere to find their OTP xD.

    @cjko lol the most basic of truths sound weird sometimes.

    @Mr-H You're right. That special bound is true friendship. Real love can't be without friendship.


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    @cjko 1. Online dating- some people take too seriously this kind of dating but most of the people date casually there. It's very difficult to put it in irl.
    2. Dating other girls/guys (not only ex) at same time without her/his consent. And when he/she knows about it, the result will break-up.



  • Secrets.

    Keeping a secrets.


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    @cjko as a scientist i would say its because love is a chemical reaction and it will end sometime , its just a need to reproduce and it will fail 80% i hope i didnt just ruin somebody elses life dont worry you still have around 20% chance that your love chemical reaction will not stop duringy your lifetime :3



  • Why relationships fail(a more mature answer in hindsight x'D)

    • Because the two came together because of physical attraction. Lust will end.

    • People get attracted and get in a relation but it's only time that reveals more about one person to the other. It might end up this way that they weren't really as compatible as they thought. Hence cheating or friction and relationship fails.



  • @g-a

    @kana you can thank me i upvoted you.

    No thanks I don't care for upvotes.

    FIRST OF ALL, YOU SHOULD BE IN LOVE LATER ON.

    I don't know why you say i should be in love later. It's my life and love is not a complusion. I think I can decide for myself 😁

    Da differences between HOOMAN AND ANIMALS are da brain and common sense. Thats why da old people gave da old tradition about marriage, life, culture, behavior, education even religion. In animals, they dont have it.

    Also, if you read my post again you might realise that i never said humans are animals. I was pointing at what nature want's from us and what we are designed to do.

    Btw good to know you know the difference between Humans and animals xD.

    So your logic is kinda nonsense for me and i am not sorry dude 😉 peace.

    Sure my logic may be nonsense to you. Can't please everyone, can we?

    PS: learning to respect others' opinions might come in handy. Just saying 🙂



  • @boodles

    I have a very particular way of seeing love and friendship. I don't always fall in love. In fact it's very rare for me to do so. In my 27 years of existence I've fell in love twice and I was lucky enough to have them love me back.
    Sadly the relationship didn't last and we eventually broke up but we started as friends and evolved to a couple but when we broke up we remained friends and I still speak to both of them till this day.
    The love bound for me is really special and important, when I love someone will be for life cuz, like @Kana said, if friendship lasts forever so can love.
    It's kinda hard for me to explain it cuz there's no real good way to express it tho words, you would need to get to know me and manage to understand me.

    @Kana

    You see, @g.a. has some sort of fixation for me and other users like @WtfJudith And @willow so he likes to come up with made up stories or half truths. I believe he is a nice guy he just lacks some common sense.

    @G-A

    I will have to ask you to clean your mouth when you mention my name to your mindless dramas and insanity.
    Let's go back to the start, did you ever dm me before other then when you bombed my dms with a bunch of questions? PERSONAL QUESTIONS should I add? I would have replied to you if you wanted to talk but as far as I know u aren't police and I'm not being investigated. So let me do what @WtfJudith didnt do when you started to molest her like you are starting to molest me. Get the f**k off away from me if all you want from me is involve me in your mindless drama. If you wanna be friends and get to know me feel free to dm me like any other user can dm me.

    Cheers!


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    @cjko
    We’re not prepared. We’re not prepared for the sacrifices, for the compromises, for the unconditional love. We’re not ready to invest all that it takes to make a relationship work. We want everything easy. We’re quitters. All it takes is a single hurdle to make us crumble to our feet. We don’t let our love grow, we let go before time.
    It’s not love we’re looking for, only excitement and thrill in life.



  • @bela true.. and I agree. Communication is the key 🙂



  • @cjko they can fail because of lack of intrest...are you a relationship guru because i need some help sorta confused about something



  • expectations hurt the most






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