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  • @willow a sincere advice.
    Quit this website.
    Make friends in real life.
    Not saying, that real life friends can’t betray you or you can trust all of them, or you would always find the right people there. But, you will get to know some real people. people who hide things, but you can get to know them step by step.
    People, who will come to your place and hug you whenever you feel lonely, or scared or whatever.
    And talking about me, yes ofc i am your friend, and i guess, a close one too. But believe me, it can never be same with an online person as a real life person.
    And not only me, Even snek, Mr.H, Lucifer or whoever you call your friends ot family.
    I know this would be difficult, but you gotta do it will, Thats the right thing to do.


  • @rendezvous said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @willow a sincere advice.
    Quit this website.
    Make friends in real life.
    Not saying, that real life friends can’t betray you or you can trust all of them, or you would always find the right people there. But, you will get to know some real people. people who hide things, but you can get to know them step by step.
    People, who will come to your place and hug you whenever you feel lonely, or scared or whatever.
    And talking about me, yes ofc i am your friend, and i guess, a close one too. But believe me, it can never be same with an online person as a real life person.
    And not only me, Even snek, Mr.H, Lucifer or whoever you call your friends ot family.
    I know this would be difficult, but you gotta do it will, Thats the right thing to do.

    Everyone keeps on talking about quitting this website, but I don’t think TWS is that bad in itself..
    Sure there are a lot of horny mofos and it can never be the same as talking to people face to face, but you can still get to know people and have significant conversations and even make really good friends.

    I think the problem we get is that it’s fuxking addicting.. this site can’t replace real life relationships and the shit that sometimes goes down on here can be toxic to some people if they spend too much time on it

    But in itself this site serves its purpose well. It’s entertaining and you get to meet a load of cool people


  • @help_wtfjudith said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @rendezvous said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @willow a sincere advice.
    Quit this website.
    Make friends in real life.
    Not saying, that real life friends can’t betray you or you can trust all of them, or you would always find the right people there. But, you will get to know some real people. people who hide things, but you can get to know them step by step.
    People, who will come to your place and hug you whenever you feel lonely, or scared or whatever.
    And talking about me, yes ofc i am your friend, and i guess, a close one too. But believe me, it can never be same with an online person as a real life person.
    And not only me, Even snek, Mr.H, Lucifer or whoever you call your friends ot family.
    I know this would be difficult, but you gotta do it will, Thats the right thing to do.

    Everyone keeps on talking about quitting this website, but I don’t think TWS is that bad in itself..
    Sure there are a lot of horny mofos and it can never be the same as talking to people face to face, but you can still get to know people and have significant conversations and even make really good friends.

    I think the problem we get is that it’s fuxking addicting.. this site can’t replace real life relationships and the shit that sometimes goes down on here can be toxic to some people if they spend too much time on it

    But in itself this site serves its purpose well. It’s entertaining and you get to meet a load of cool people

    I am not saying that TWS is bad or something. Its obviously good for passing your time or having some fun or posting some shit and weird stuff like we do.
    But talking about the fact if you can actually have some significant conversations with people or make some really good friends, I honestly don’t think thats the case.
    I don’t believe, I have made a friend in here, with whom I can talk about anything, and be my real self. ( Actually, I dont have any person of that kind even in real life, but still I would like to believe it’s possible, reason being I haven’t actually tried getting close to anyone in real life, but here I have)
    And you can never get to know anybody’s real self here, reason being, Everyone projects themselves differently, including me. Like, what Image i have here, is absolutely different from my real life. Sometimes I feel if I am actually facing split personalities by using this site, and behaving differently from my real life.
    And you answer me, I am your friend, right? I mean you call me a friend, but have we ever had a conversation about anything meaningful? Or Do you have any idea whats going on with my life, or Do I have any idea whats going on with u? Nope. Not at all.
    We sure can make friends here, to just have fun with, to joke and to do some shit stuff, but saying if you can be actually close with anyone on here, nah, not true.


  • @rendezvous Hello Rendy, it is a quite tough and hard words you mention about "friendship". Can we discuss further more about this on "private message" rather than this "public"?
    I am all ears if you wanna share something happen on you recently. As far as i concern, i figured out you might feel "uncomfortable" because of something. But ofc, it is all decision is on your hand. My dm is open if you wanna talk. What @Help_WtfJudith said is true, but your opinion is true too. However, not all of your real friends are your real friends and always understand you while your virtual friends dont be your friends and neva feel care about you.


  • @g-a said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @rendezvous Hello Rendy, it is a quite tough and hard words you mention about "friendship". Can we discuss further more about this on "private message" rather than this "public"?
    I am all ears if you wanna share something happen on you recently. As far as i concern, i figured out you might feel "uncomfortable" because of something. But ofc, it is all decision is on your hand. My dm is open if you wanna talk. What @Help_WtfJudith said is true, but your opinion is true too. However, not all of your real friends are your real friends and always understand you while your virtual friends dont be your friends and neva feel care about you.

    Hmm thanks. I appreciate it.
    But I kinda have given up on DMs.
    And Actually, I don’t have anything to share rn, but I will sure remember you whenever I do. 👍


  • @rendezvous said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @help_wtfjudith said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @rendezvous said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @willow a sincere advice.
    Quit this website.
    Make friends in real life.
    Not saying, that real life friends can’t betray you or you can trust all of them, or you would always find the right people there. But, you will get to know some real people. people who hide things, but you can get to know them step by step.
    People, who will come to your place and hug you whenever you feel lonely, or scared or whatever.
    And talking about me, yes ofc i am your friend, and i guess, a close one too. But believe me, it can never be same with an online person as a real life person.
    And not only me, Even snek, Mr.H, Lucifer or whoever you call your friends ot family.
    I know this would be difficult, but you gotta do it will, Thats the right thing to do.

    Everyone keeps on talking about quitting this website, but I don’t think TWS is that bad in itself..
    Sure there are a lot of horny mofos and it can never be the same as talking to people face to face, but you can still get to know people and have significant conversations and even make really good friends.

    I think the problem we get is that it’s fuxking addicting.. this site can’t replace real life relationships and the shit that sometimes goes down on here can be toxic to some people if they spend too much time on it

    But in itself this site serves its purpose well. It’s entertaining and you get to meet a load of cool people

    I am not saying that TWS is bad or something. Its obviously good for passing your time or having some fun or posting some shit and weird stuff like we do.

    Agreed

    But talking about the fact if you can actually have some significant conversations with people or make some really good friends, I honestly don’t think thats the case.

    I still do. I recognize the fact that it’s different than irl tho

    I don’t believe, I have made a friend in here, with whom I can talk about anything, and be my real self. ( Actually, I dont have any person of that kind even in real life, but still I would like to believe it’s possible, reason being I haven’t actually tried getting close to anyone in real life, but here I have)

    I used to be fairly close to Layla and I’d talk about all kinds of shit. There’s been a lot more during that time and even today
    So I firmly believe it’s possible

    And you can never get to know anybody’s real self here, reason being, Everyone projects themselves differently, including me. Like, what Image i have here, is absolutely different from my real life. Sometimes I feel if I am actually facing split personalities by using this site, and behaving differently from my real life.

    It might be different than irl, but you can’t completely fake your personality
    You will still act the way your true self would act, but I think since it’s a different virtual environment it’s bound to change

    And you answer me, I am your friend, right? I mean you call me a friend, but have we ever had a conversation about anything meaningful?

    I think we did have a short period of something like that, but idk why it stopped.

    Or Do you have any idea whats going on with my life, or Do I have any idea whats going on with u? Nope. Not at all.

    I don’t, but it’s not like we’ve been chatting a lot anyways really?
    Just like with my best friend, haven’t seen her in 2 weeks and she’s busy af rn so idk etf is going on with her, but she’s still my best friend. I don’t think people need to constantly update each other on shot going on their lives to remain friends. Just the fact that you know the person is there if you need it and vice versa

    We sure can make friends here, to just have fun with, to joke and to do some shit stuff, but saying if you can be actually close with anyone on here, nah, not true.

    I still don’t think that’s true. A lot of the people you talk to on here you end up only joking around with on topics or public, but the select few you eventually grow to know more I think we go in depth with in pm


  • @help_wtfjudith said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @rendezvous said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @help_wtfjudith said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @rendezvous said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @willow a sincere advice.
    Quit this website.
    Make friends in real life.
    Not saying, that real life friends can’t betray you or you can trust all of them, or you would always find the right people there. But, you will get to know some real people. people who hide things, but you can get to know them step by step.
    People, who will come to your place and hug you whenever you feel lonely, or scared or whatever.
    And talking about me, yes ofc i am your friend, and i guess, a close one too. But believe me, it can never be same with an online person as a real life person.
    And not only me, Even snek, Mr.H, Lucifer or whoever you call your friends ot family.
    I know this would be difficult, but you gotta do it will, Thats the right thing to do.

    Everyone keeps on talking about quitting this website, but I don’t think TWS is that bad in itself..
    Sure there are a lot of horny mofos and it can never be the same as talking to people face to face, but you can still get to know people and have significant conversations and even make really good friends.

    I think the problem we get is that it’s fuxking addicting.. this site can’t replace real life relationships and the shit that sometimes goes down on here can be toxic to some people if they spend too much time on it

    But in itself this site serves its purpose well. It’s entertaining and you get to meet a load of cool people

    I am not saying that TWS is bad or something. Its obviously good for passing your time or having some fun or posting some shit and weird stuff like we do.

    Agreed

    But talking about the fact if you can actually have some significant conversations with people or make some really good friends, I honestly don’t think thats the case.

    I still do. I recognize the fact that it’s different than irl tho

    I don’t believe, I have made a friend in here, with whom I can talk about anything, and be my real self. ( Actually, I dont have any person of that kind even in real life, but still I would like to believe it’s possible, reason being I haven’t actually tried getting close to anyone in real life, but here I have)

    I used to be fairly close to Layla and I’d talk about all kinds of shit. There’s been a lot more during that time and even today
    So I firmly believe it’s possible

    And you can never get to know anybody’s real self here, reason being, Everyone projects themselves differently, including me. Like, what Image i have here, is absolutely different from my real life. Sometimes I feel if I am actually facing split personalities by using this site, and behaving differently from my real life.

    It might be different than irl, but you can’t completely fake your personality
    You will still act the way your true self would act, but I think since it’s a different virtual environment it’s bound to change

    And you answer me, I am your friend, right? I mean you call me a friend, but have we ever had a conversation about anything meaningful?

    I think we did have a short period of something like that, but idk why it stopped.

    Or Do you have any idea whats going on with my life, or Do I have any idea whats going on with u? Nope. Not at all.

    I don’t, but it’s not like we’ve been chatting a lot anyways really?
    Just like with my best friend, haven’t seen her in 2 weeks and she’s busy af rn so idk etf is going on with her, but she’s still my best friend. I don’t think people need to constantly update each other on shot going on their lives to remain friends. Just the fact that you know the person is there if you need it and vice versa

    We sure can make friends here, to just have fun with, to joke and to do some shit stuff, but saying if you can be actually close with anyone on here, nah, not true.

    I still don’t think that’s true. A lot of the people you talk to on here you end up only joking around with on topics or public, but the select few you eventually grow to know more I think we go in depth with in pm

    Idk. I guess then its just that I have given up on everyone, given up on talking to people on DMs, and even in Public Chat, because I actually feel I have given like 4 months to this website, but still I haven’t made any friend whom I would tell everything, who won’t judge me or be there for me whenever I need to.
    Like its not just you, whom I don’t chat much anymore, its everyone. I feel withdrawn and excluded from everyone.


  • @rendezvous

    Your points are valid and honest and I can agree with you in some.
    I believe that there can be a good balance between online and IRL. Just cuz you are here, doesn't mean you can't make friends IRL. I believe there is a place for everything and this website is made to not be taken too serious, as it's a place you come to post shit and be weird, tho it doesn't mean honest and pure communication can't happen. There was a post, a few weeks ago, about split personalities that touched how ppl can behave and act different online then IRL and that is very true, especially if you are trying to get away from your own self, but I believe there are still some ppl that open up and show their true colors, if you take the time to get to know them.
    It's obviously better if your circle of friends are nearby. That can drop by when you need a hug, that can take you out when you need to but I've had bad experiences in both "worlds", since people can deceive anywhere and can be a bitch anywhere. Maybe it's as you say, maybe you did give up on everyone and got away from everyone cuz you don't feel like ppl can hold significant conversations, but if you get away / hide from ppl IRL it will happen the same, so don't blame it on the fact it's online, I can assure you that there can be such connection online as I have ppl that I've know for over 10 years that still care to drop off and ask how things are going and genuinely worry, just gotta allow yourself to make such bound.
    As a final note, I always mentioned online vs IRL not TWS vs IRL, keep that in mind, as I also find this website not the best one for what I went over but I believe it's still possible with the right users! :v:


  • @willow the only one who you truly need to please is that girl in the mirror.
    True love accepts you, flaws and all. It doesn't try to change you, nor does it criticize.


  • @rendezvous said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @willow a sincere advice.
    Quit this website.

    This is one of the reasons I dont talk to @Evan-Elderson when Im having issues anymore. Your solution is always to just leave. Just walk away. Always saying “this website doesnt mean shit”. And it just kills my vibe even more.
    Because you dont know the people here like i do. You even said it in one of your replies above.
    When I look at this website I see the people who have helped me through some pretty tough shit. But I also see the idiots that screwed me over, the idiots I let get to me, and all the dumbass spammers and horny pieces of shit.

    You want me to leave the website. And just continue to go into the world of real life. Which i refuse to ever just do.
    Because real life Ren, is just like online.
    All my relationships I have had these last few months, it all consisted of texting and video calling. Both of which I have also done on here. All my friendships barely get passed aquaintance level. I dont open up to people like I do with complete strangers.

    Make friends in real life.
    Not saying, that real life friends can’t betray you or you can trust all of them, or you would always find the right people there.

    I have found the right people here

    But, you will get to know some real people. people who hide things, but you can get to know them step by step.

    I can also do that on here

    People, who will come to your place and hug you whenever you feel lonely, or scared or whatever.

    This is HILARIOUS. Because it shows just how different everyone is. I do better with messaging. I dont like people watching me cry. I dont like people watching me lose my damn mind. I would rather message around. Prove to myself that i can get myself calmed down, with the minimal help that I know someone is there.

    I know this would be difficult, but you gotta do it will, Thats the right thing to do.

    And lastly. Dont tell me whats right and whats wrong. All Im seeing here is me just picking a problem and running away from it. You pin all this blame on the people online. But news flash Ren, it was written for some people I interact offline with as well.
    The stress was written from real life as well
    Hell even the trigger came from real life.

    Dont give advice that may be best for you.
    Dont come up on a post that i already feel shitty abt looking at, let alone replying to. And just bringing up the old phrase ERR TYPICAL USER USES that “TWS sucks, just leave” because Im so sick of hearing it


  • @willow
    I must say...this is one of your best posts ever :)
    I'm so proud of you!


  • @help_wtfjudith around 11 hours ago, you asked me about a possibility your "different character" irl. You just answer it, girl.

    It might be different than irl, but you can’t completely fake your personality
    You will still act the way your true self would act, but I think since it’s a different virtual environment it’s bound to change

    I wanna say, it is not a biggy deal for me if you have another "character" because of your explanation above. Yes, I love you and everything about you. Do you still need explanation? Well, you are a young girl who know how to behave like a kid on your age but you are mature enough when we talk. I feel comfortable in that things, your side.


  • @willow virtual hug and i am speechless


  • @willow said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @rendezvous said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @willow a sincere advice.
    Quit this website.

    This is one of the reasons I dont talk to @Evan-Elderson when Im having issues anymore. Your solution is always to just leave. Just walk away. Always saying “this website doesnt mean shit”. And it just kills my vibe even more.
    Because you dont know the people here like i do. You even said it in one of your replies above.
    When I look at this website I see the people who have helped me through some pretty tough shit. But I also see the idiots that screwed me over, the idiots I let get to me, and all the dumbass spammers and horny pieces of shit.

    You want me to leave the website. And just continue to go into the world of real life. Which i refuse to ever just do.
    Because real life Ren, is just like online.
    All my relationships I have had these last few months, it all consisted of texting and video calling. Both of which I have also done on here. All my friendships barely get passed aquaintance level. I dont open up to people like I do with complete strangers.

    Make friends in real life.
    Not saying, that real life friends can’t betray you or you can trust all of them, or you would always find the right people there.

    I have found the right people here

    But, you will get to know some real people. people who hide things, but you can get to know them step by step.

    I can also do that on here

    People, who will come to your place and hug you whenever you feel lonely, or scared or whatever.

    This is HILARIOUS. Because it shows just how different everyone is. I do better with messaging. I dont like people watching me cry. I dont like people watching me lose my damn mind. I would rather message around. Prove to myself that i can get myself calmed down, with the minimal help that I know someone is there.

    I know this would be difficult, but you gotta do it will, Thats the right thing to do.

    And lastly. Dont tell me whats right and whats wrong. All Im seeing here is me just picking a problem and running away from it. You pin all this blame on the people online. But news flash Ren, it was written for some people I interact offline with as well.
    The stress was written from real life as well
    Hell even the trigger came from real life.

    Dont give advice that may be best for you.
    Dont come up on a post that i already feel shitty abt looking at, let alone replying to. And just bringing up the old phrase ERR TYPICAL USER USES that “TWS sucks, just leave” because Im so sick of hearing it

    Calm down, calm down honey. There’s nothing to get so triggered on. I just said what I thought was right, the final call is obviously yours. You know yourself better than I do, and you know whats best for you.
    Like you said, you don’t like people watching you when you are crying or you are better at messaging, I guess, Its just that we are different personalities. I would prefer a real life friend over an online one, because simply he can be physically present whenever I need him.
    And if you think that making online friends will help you out, then I guess, you have some really good friends, ( including me ofc haha). So, yeah in the end decision is yours.
    And if you wanna talk about your problems I am here, and I promise I won’t tell you to leave ever again haha. Rather I would try to listen to your problem and then find some good solution to it. 🤗


  • @rendezvous Dude, if you ever felt like "my real friend is such an ass" because that person backstab you, i will take your words :) Well, i have many friends in real life. I was a vice president of the highest organization at my college and all of lecturers were all ears in every actions of mine. Then, almost 75% my friends in real life was such an ass who wanted me down because i had "that position". In that time, i neva believe someone irl before i get closer with that person at least 6 months (including how that person behave when he wants to eat, to pee, to do pooping till the way he sleeps). Yes that is weird, but i do it because i dont want to get another bad stories about friendship..


  • @rendezvous said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    an I promise I won’t tell you to leave ever again haha. Rather I would try to listen to your problem and then find some good solution to it. 🤗

    😘😘😘😘😘


  • @willow I really got lost while reading!
    Sorry dear sensative...


  • @v2sp9-0 said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @willow I really got lost while reading!
    Sorry dear sensative...

    @GSP-Patrol-The-Proofreaders

  • Music Lovers

    @v2sp9-0 said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @willow I really got lost while reading!
    Sorry dear sensative...

    Sensitive*