• @rendezvous said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @willow a sincere advice.
    Quit this website.

    This is one of the reasons I dont talk to @Evan-Elderson when Im having issues anymore. Your solution is always to just leave. Just walk away. Always saying “this website doesnt mean shit”. And it just kills my vibe even more.
    Because you dont know the people here like i do. You even said it in one of your replies above.
    When I look at this website I see the people who have helped me through some pretty tough shit. But I also see the idiots that screwed me over, the idiots I let get to me, and all the dumbass spammers and horny pieces of shit.

    You want me to leave the website. And just continue to go into the world of real life. Which i refuse to ever just do.
    Because real life Ren, is just like online.
    All my relationships I have had these last few months, it all consisted of texting and video calling. Both of which I have also done on here. All my friendships barely get passed aquaintance level. I dont open up to people like I do with complete strangers.

    Make friends in real life.
    Not saying, that real life friends can’t betray you or you can trust all of them, or you would always find the right people there.

    I have found the right people here

    But, you will get to know some real people. people who hide things, but you can get to know them step by step.

    I can also do that on here

    People, who will come to your place and hug you whenever you feel lonely, or scared or whatever.

    This is HILARIOUS. Because it shows just how different everyone is. I do better with messaging. I dont like people watching me cry. I dont like people watching me lose my damn mind. I would rather message around. Prove to myself that i can get myself calmed down, with the minimal help that I know someone is there.

    I know this would be difficult, but you gotta do it will, Thats the right thing to do.

    And lastly. Dont tell me whats right and whats wrong. All Im seeing here is me just picking a problem and running away from it. You pin all this blame on the people online. But news flash Ren, it was written for some people I interact offline with as well.
    The stress was written from real life as well
    Hell even the trigger came from real life.

    Dont give advice that may be best for you.
    Dont come up on a post that i already feel shitty abt looking at, let alone replying to. And just bringing up the old phrase ERR TYPICAL USER USES that “TWS sucks, just leave” because Im so sick of hearing it


  • @willow
    I must say...this is one of your best posts ever :)
    I'm so proud of you!


  • @help_wtfjudith around 11 hours ago, you asked me about a possibility your "different character" irl. You just answer it, girl.

    It might be different than irl, but you can’t completely fake your personality
    You will still act the way your true self would act, but I think since it’s a different virtual environment it’s bound to change

    I wanna say, it is not a biggy deal for me if you have another "character" because of your explanation above. Yes, I love you and everything about you. Do you still need explanation? Well, you are a young girl who know how to behave like a kid on your age but you are mature enough when we talk. I feel comfortable in that things, your side.


  • @willow virtual hug and i am speechless


  • @willow said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @rendezvous said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @willow a sincere advice.
    Quit this website.

    This is one of the reasons I dont talk to @Evan-Elderson when Im having issues anymore. Your solution is always to just leave. Just walk away. Always saying “this website doesnt mean shit”. And it just kills my vibe even more.
    Because you dont know the people here like i do. You even said it in one of your replies above.
    When I look at this website I see the people who have helped me through some pretty tough shit. But I also see the idiots that screwed me over, the idiots I let get to me, and all the dumbass spammers and horny pieces of shit.

    You want me to leave the website. And just continue to go into the world of real life. Which i refuse to ever just do.
    Because real life Ren, is just like online.
    All my relationships I have had these last few months, it all consisted of texting and video calling. Both of which I have also done on here. All my friendships barely get passed aquaintance level. I dont open up to people like I do with complete strangers.

    Make friends in real life.
    Not saying, that real life friends can’t betray you or you can trust all of them, or you would always find the right people there.

    I have found the right people here

    But, you will get to know some real people. people who hide things, but you can get to know them step by step.

    I can also do that on here

    People, who will come to your place and hug you whenever you feel lonely, or scared or whatever.

    This is HILARIOUS. Because it shows just how different everyone is. I do better with messaging. I dont like people watching me cry. I dont like people watching me lose my damn mind. I would rather message around. Prove to myself that i can get myself calmed down, with the minimal help that I know someone is there.

    I know this would be difficult, but you gotta do it will, Thats the right thing to do.

    And lastly. Dont tell me whats right and whats wrong. All Im seeing here is me just picking a problem and running away from it. You pin all this blame on the people online. But news flash Ren, it was written for some people I interact offline with as well.
    The stress was written from real life as well
    Hell even the trigger came from real life.

    Dont give advice that may be best for you.
    Dont come up on a post that i already feel shitty abt looking at, let alone replying to. And just bringing up the old phrase ERR TYPICAL USER USES that “TWS sucks, just leave” because Im so sick of hearing it

    Calm down, calm down honey. There’s nothing to get so triggered on. I just said what I thought was right, the final call is obviously yours. You know yourself better than I do, and you know whats best for you.
    Like you said, you don’t like people watching you when you are crying or you are better at messaging, I guess, Its just that we are different personalities. I would prefer a real life friend over an online one, because simply he can be physically present whenever I need him.
    And if you think that making online friends will help you out, then I guess, you have some really good friends, ( including me ofc haha). So, yeah in the end decision is yours.
    And if you wanna talk about your problems I am here, and I promise I won’t tell you to leave ever again haha. Rather I would try to listen to your problem and then find some good solution to it. 🤗


  • @rendezvous Dude, if you ever felt like "my real friend is such an ass" because that person backstab you, i will take your words :) Well, i have many friends in real life. I was a vice president of the highest organization at my college and all of lecturers were all ears in every actions of mine. Then, almost 75% my friends in real life was such an ass who wanted me down because i had "that position". In that time, i neva believe someone irl before i get closer with that person at least 6 months (including how that person behave when he wants to eat, to pee, to do pooping till the way he sleeps). Yes that is weird, but i do it because i dont want to get another bad stories about friendship..


  • @rendezvous said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    an I promise I won’t tell you to leave ever again haha. Rather I would try to listen to your problem and then find some good solution to it. 🤗

    😘😘😘😘😘


  • @willow I really got lost while reading!
    Sorry dear sensative...


  • @v2sp9-0 said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @willow I really got lost while reading!
    Sorry dear sensative...

    @GSP-Patrol-The-Proofreaders

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    @v2sp9-0 said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @willow I really got lost while reading!
    Sorry dear sensative...

    Sensitive*


  • @g-a said in A Letter To Whom It May Concern:

    @rendezvous Dude, if you ever felt like "my real friend is such an ass" because that person backstab you, i will take your words :) Well, i have many friends in real life. I was a vice president of the highest organization at my college and all of lecturers were all ears in every actions of mine. Then, almost 75% my friends in real life was such an ass who wanted me down because i had "that position". In that time, i neva believe someone irl before i get closer with that person at least 6 months (including how that person behave when he wants to eat, to pee, to do pooping till the way he sleeps). Yes that is weird, but i do it because i dont want to get another bad stories about friendship..

    I wont actually say if I am being bacstabbed by anyone, but its just that I feel like they are ignoring me( my real life mates). Idek, and some other shit happened too. So, I don’t really have any friends as of now. But its fine, i am not dying.


  • @rendezvous That's Rendy whom i know 👍