honestly those cities are not the best @podkast
Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?
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@ragnar Both.
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@humanbean89 said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
Sometimes you are FORCED into it. I was blackmailed and threatened by a boss/former friend/authority figure who was married into a relationship I didn't want but I kind of had to deal with it because I was homeless and they were my housing for the time. It is both a choice because you CAN and SHOULD have the ability to say no, but also a mistake because of the aftermath it could possibly cause...
You do realize that being forced into it is synonym of rape right..? Blackmailing someone is still rape. Even if you canโt say no, but didnโt want it, then that isnโt consent ๐
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@wtfjudith people don't care about others. especially in this country. Sex isn't sacred-like the way it used to be. And I know it wasn't consentual, but wasn't HE cheating though? His choice, and mistake...
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@humanbean89 said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@wtfjudith people don't care about others. especially in this country. Sex isn't sacred-like the way it used to be. And I know it wasn't consentual, but wasn't HE cheating though? His choice, and mistake...
He was cheating, yes. Whatโs even worse in this situation is that this wasnโt a consensual act.. I get that sex isnโt viewed the same way by everyone, but the thing remains that what he did was fucking wrong, to the wife he cheated on and to you ๐
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@wtfjudith said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@humanbean89 said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@wtfjudith people don't care about others. especially in this country. Sex isn't sacred-like the way it used to be. And I know it wasn't consentual, but wasn't HE cheating though? His choice, and mistake...
He was cheating, yes. Whatโs even worse in this situation is that this wasnโt a consensual act.. I get that sex isnโt viewed the same way by everyone, but the thing remains that what he did was fucking wrong, to the wife he cheated on and to you ๐
Thanks. I know...but I didn't want to be on the streets that winter...so.....yeah...
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@humanbean89 said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@wtfjudith said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@humanbean89 said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@wtfjudith people don't care about others. especially in this country. Sex isn't sacred-like the way it used to be. And I know it wasn't consentual, but wasn't HE cheating though? His choice, and mistake...
He was cheating, yes. Whatโs even worse in this situation is that this wasnโt a consensual act.. I get that sex isnโt viewed the same way by everyone, but the thing remains that what he did was fucking wrong, to the wife he cheated on and to you ๐
Thanks. I know...but I didn't want to be on the streets that winter...so.....yeah...
I understand, just hope youโre in a better situation now :)
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@wtfjudith mentally...sort of....physically...mostly....financially....fuck no... :(
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Cheating is both a choice and a mistake. Before you cheat you make a choice, and the "moment" you cheat you make a mistake.
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@g-a said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@ragnar it is a choice. If you love your gf, you wont cheat her. If you dont love her, stay away from her. Why? Are you considering to cheat your love @im-a-bae dude? :o not cool dude.
She just cheated me with @Hazard ๐ญ๐ญ im so hurt rnow
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@ragnar I was only complimenting him BIG difference, that doe-
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@im-a-bae said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@ragnar I was only complimenting him BIG difference, that doe-
Why am I even explaining/defending myself, this is getting stupid :joy:Suuuuuuuureeeeeeeee
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@ragnar What? I can't even compliment a guy now.. jeez stop being so jelly :joy:
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@ragnar said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@g-a said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@ragnar it is a choice. If you love your gf, you wont cheat her. If you dont love her, stay away from her. Why? Are you considering to cheat your love @im-a-bae dude? :o not cool dude.
She just cheated me with @Hazard ๐ญ๐ญ im so hurt rnow
Did she cheat you with @Hazard ? Was it threesome?
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@damncuteguy DCG..really now? :joy:
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@ragnar said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@g-a said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@ragnar it is a choice. If you love your gf, you wont cheat her. If you dont love her, stay away from her. Why? Are you considering to cheat your love @im-a-bae dude? :o not cool dude.
She just cheated me with @Hazard ๐ญ๐ญ im so hurt rnow
@RAGNAR oh man. ๐๐ Dont feel sad, you should marry her so she wont cheat on you with another guys and you can do sex all of the time lol.
@im-a-bae so are you doing threesome right now? :o are you a polygamous? Brb try to get the requirement ๐๐น -
It's a choice...n it's a mistake if your hurting someone who doesn't disserve it....n cheating is not the answer to anything
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@g-a said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@ragnar said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@g-a said in Is CHEATING a mistake or a choice?:
@ragnar it is a choice. If you love your gf, you wont cheat her. If you dont love her, stay away from her. Why? Are you considering to cheat your love @im-a-bae dude? :o not cool dude.
She just cheated me with @Hazard ๐ญ๐ญ im so hurt rnow
@RAGNAR oh man. ๐๐ Dont feel sad, you should marry her so she wont cheat on you with another guys and you can do sex all of the time lol.
@im-a-bae so are you doing threesome right now? :o are you a polygamous? Brb try to get the requirement ๐๐นOMG I swear every comment you make..... I literally have no words :joy::joy::see_no_evil:
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@im-a-bae
Wait till @RAGNAR finds out about the Bachelor Party ideas we've been having :laughing:
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its depend on your mind thats its a mistake or a choice
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@mr-h shhhhh, he doesn't need to know that :joy: