Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
Trust and when to Trust.
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What do you think about trusting people?
In my opinion, trusting someone is like giving him the chance to ruin your life in one bit. Let's just say, i didn't have good experience with trusting someone. And i feel like, it will make your life a lot harder, if you trust them. I would rather, stay by my own this whole life, instead of beeing with wrong people my whole life. I just can't find someone who is really the one. The one, that will stay in your life forever.
So what do you think?
Tell me your stories about trusting people and trust in general.
Are you able to trust people, or do you think the same like me?
Just tell me what you think :)
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@iamagirl1 I can only agree on this one :)
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that's ok
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I have trust issues myself, I think it just comes down to the person you are ‘trusting’. Trust is like a piece if paper, if you scrunch it once, no matter how many times you try to fix it back to normal, there will still be deep marks left. But trust your instincts, that sounds ironic but :p
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@alexthealien Yeah, trust is a big issue. You can't be sure, if the person is really the person you see in him. But there will always be marks left. Everything you say makes alot of sense. I like the way you think. Let's just believe in someone that comes in our life, who is like he says he is.
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@michaelele omg you right so fast!
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@iamagirl1 What are you talking about?
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@michaelele i don't knw
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@michaelele Good luck ❤️Hope everything goes well for you!
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DON'T TRUST ANYBODY OR ANYTHING. ATOMS MAKE UP EVERYTHING, AND WE'RE ALL MADE OF ATOMS OK? OK.
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It's unpredictable to know who to trust and when to trust but we should always never run out of it because we live through trust yk, we close our eyes at night and go in deep sleep, trusting our body to wake itself in the morning.
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@Gia28 said in Trust and when to Trust.:
It's unpredictable to know who to trust and when to trust but we should always never run out of it because we live through trust yk, we close our eyes at night and go in deep sleep, trusting our body to wake itself in the morning.
Very well said, gandara 💜
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@Bela-Hella LOL thanks, Bela Gandarin 😘😂
Trust is also very expensive. Once a person gives it to you for free, treasure it. You can more like impossibly afford to get it back again. ❤️
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I trust everyone
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I don't trust my trust.
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@Gia28 well said dear 👍👍
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@naren1996 thanks! 😊