@Vanie i can tell you this Vanie, number one, if there is.someone you think.of as soon as you wake and before you fall asleep then no flirting with others is required, your heart is already full.of everything it needs. Maybe that's just me but i bet lots of guys feel the same. I just came out of a 5 yr relationship a few months back and i can say i never once flirted with another in that whole time. Had no need, reason or desire to. I think she may have been my once in a lifetime girl though. I was more of a rascal in my younger days