@sarcasm I know how you feel girl :)

Why shouldn't 2 well-behaved people talk to each other? Eliminate the hatred, the pain, any badness from your heart and talk to her if you feel like it. Talk to him, you will find out if it makes you feel better or if you don't want to do it anymore .. But be calm :)

Confront her in a calm and articulate manner if you have suspicions, but I would make sure that your suspicions are based on fact first.

@blue if i were you, i will dump him without giving him a chance to explain even a single word :)
this is a girl power

@therisingsun 😬😬

@im-a-bae hmmm do i?
Innocent

@mrmatt88 I say you made the right call for yourself. Her actions made you uncomfortable, you don't seem to have a good feeling about her intentions, and you set your limit.
As a married man, I have been the one to put strain on our marriage. Almost 8 years together now. I do my best to be open about my needs.
I think a cheater is always a cheater if they keep hiding what they want and don't communicate how they feel.

@secondchance27
He broke my heart and cheated on me. I can’t just give him what he wants from me - including forgiveness

You said you feel broken There is no forgiveness involved.

Right after that incident in a marriage tours where we had the chance to talk over our upcoming union, he confessed about him cheating on me.

He confessed about his cheating on you.

That’s also when I decided to cut everything that connects us. But I still love him. Should I give him a second chance?

Then you asked us about second chance? Girl, re-read point 1-3. Now i asked you back, should you give him a second chance? Well, if someone cheated on me, there is no "coming back together as a lover". A cheater is a cheater. Period. But if you think you want to do it, be ready for next hurting scene like before.

WTF! Why do people even do this?
Shame! @Anoj117