I think it's fine! You should play the field. Just do not lie to someone else about your intentions. Plainly say. I am looking for friends and fun. If Mr or Mrs right comes along great if not that's ok too. Only one way to find that person I'd to look. Don't let anyone else shame you!
My future step-mother... I need advice!
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I went on a dating holiday tour around last year, didn’t really work out. I met someone, she just wasn’t for me I guess. But my dad has been widowed for about 5 years, he’s not that high up yet so he decided to get back into dating. He went on the same kind of tour I went on last year and came back quite happy with himself. A couple months later I got to meet his fiance. Imagine my surprise when he brings back the girl I dated on that same tour. My future step-mother is my ex girlfriend. What do I do? I know I can’t really get in the way of his happiness though, I know it’s been hard on him the past several years.
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Oh, that's messed up dude. o.o
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@hurleyking That's a hard one. Hmmmm ... I guess if you have a great bond with your father, maybe you could tell him that somehow you've dated that girl before. But at the same time, just give your support for their relationship.
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@xkeziahx25 I really don't know how to act in front of them. I can't stand seeing them.
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@hurleyking Yeah! it's a very big issue to you dude...
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@inseekayumi31 I've been so concern of my father's health that I would never do anything to make him feel unhappy. Though it's too bizaare, I would probably be honest to my dad because he deserves to know our situation. I hope there'll be no problem between us.
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@hurleyking ohh. that's awkward, that's really hard on your part.
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@kittypie Too awkward, you really can feel me.
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@radiant1978 Yes it is, hope I just can erase our memories in an instant so it won't be a big deal for us.
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If i were you, just tell to your dad that she's a girl of yours before...
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@hurleyking Just remain calm in front of them. And then go to the bathroom, throw up. haha just kidding dude xD
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@radiant1978 I had no intention to hide it from my dad because he deserves to know. I'm just waiting for the right timing.
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@kittypie Absolutely. If you are the girl in that situation, what would you do by the way? :D
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@xkeziahx25 honestly i dont really know.
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@hurleyking Let's just hope for the best. And maybe, after you tell him the truth, find your own place if you are still living with your dad.
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@xkeziahx25 hahaha nice one dude! I think I really need to learn how to get along with them because I know that later on, my ex-girlfriend would be part of my family.
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@inseekayumi31 Yes I'm hoping for what's best for my dad because after all the hard work he's done for me I think it's time to give back to him. You're right, it's also time for me to find a place and live independently.
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@hurleyking So good luck then. :)
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@inseekayumi31 thank you for the advice!
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@hurleyking Glad to be of help somehow xD