@your1ofakind Oh man! Dump her right away. She's not in the same page with you. If you marry her, you will only live a miserable life because she doesn't love you, she's still in love with her ex. Give her freedom, and you will also set yourself free.
Posts made by hurleyking
RE: She's continually seeing her ex and I'm fed up.
RE: Should I give him a second chance?
@secondchance27 That's really sad to hear but I guess he's sincere about asking forgiveness from you because he confessed his mistakes to you. You are the only one who can decide whether to accept him or not but my advice is to follow the things that makes your heart happy.
RE: I want to start taking birth control pills again.
@excitedgirl93 Don't take unless you already have someone whom you are in a sexual relationship already. It's really weird for me because you are still about to join a Tour. Does it mean that joining a tour would necessarily get you in bed with someone you just met?Hmmm..Don't get me wrong. I am just being curious. But in the positive side, you are just making yourself protected all the time.
RE: Celebrating my parent's silver anniversary
@excitedsiblings Don't panic about organizing an event. If you just believe in yourself I'm sure everything will turnout smoothly. Aside from the traditional silver theme why not have a family trip abroad. There's no need to have a lavish party as long as you have an intimate relationship with every member in the family. I guess that is the greatest gift that you could give to your parents.
RE: My cousin's husband does not care about the baby.
That is so frustrating to hear that a father couldnt care less about his child. If that's the case it's better to separate ways because he also had history of cheating with other women. Or maybe you could be the one to hire a babysitter and let her husband knows. I'm sure you would hurt his ego because you care more than he ever was.
RE: I'm pregnant. How do I break the news to my parents?
@worriedpregnant That would be so devastating to your parents because they do everything just to send you to school for you to have a brighter future but the fact that it's already there, theres nothing you could do but but accept it. Just tell it to your mom slowly and ask for forgiveness. It would be so hard for them to accept at first but I know that they will soon accept their grand child.
RE: How do I prepare for our first date?
@radiant1978 There are many things you can do for the first date, you can either bring her for a movie date or go together watch her favorite live band. You can also go for a tradional dinner date where you can arrange a restaurant for a candle-light dinner where someone is playing her favorite song on the background. And lastly don't forget to give her flowers. I'm sure her heart will melt for you.
RE: Dad is getting married again
I am so sorry for your loss @mrmatt88. I know how painful it was because I've been through in the same situation. But as your dad said "life must go on", I think you should too. Supporting your dad doesn't mean that you replaced your mom in your heart. You only had one mom and nothing can changed that but your dad has a need that only a woman can give.
RE: My bestfriend asked me for a date. What should I do?
@excitedgirl93 Don't assume anything yet! Maybe he wants a friendly date with you or whatever. If he courts you, why not? I believe that friendship is a strong foundation of a relationship. It may turn awkward at first as most relationships do but you already work it out together as bestfriends so maybe easier for both of you to adjust.