hehehhee <3
Does he genuinly like me or does he only want me for sex?
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@alicey2k now he isn't talking to me much. Its me only initiating the conversation
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@tm I respect that your experiences are different to others, but don't project them onto either me or somebody else - that's shady as fuck.
I hope that one day you are able to enjoy a truly platonic cross-gender friendship, it'll open your eyes to a whole new world.
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@heycutie you get attached too easily. He seems to be just testing the waters, nothing harmful yet, I think. Ofc he wants to fuck you, if you let yourself he would be already balls deep in you. XD if he's ignoring you now, just forget him, boys at this age are temporary :)
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@matt_aranha I've been through platonic cross gender friendship it was quite amazing but at the end this girl will leave u if u don't give her love (romantically)and sex cz she simply needs it . So it's not only about men wanting sex from girls it's also girls wanting that " exceptional lover " or " amazing fucker " they can't just stick around with a platonic intellectual and spiritual guy .
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@tm Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaannd you're still doing it.
I get it, haven't experienced lasting platonic friendships with the opposite sex. You haven't seen (or just don't recognise) it amongst the people you know. You really aren't alone, sad to say there are a great many people who aren't capable of seeing that we have more in common than that which makes us different, reducing people to their gender has been a flaw of much of civilisation since long before either of us was born.
But don't dare presume to speak on behalf of me and other men that we view girls/women that way and automatically want sex with them, you don't know me and you don't know all men. If you want to try telling everybody here that the women I'm platonic friends with (for over a quarter of a century in some cases) are suddenly going to "leave if I don't give them romantic love and sex" or that I can't make new platonic friendships which last as long, more fool you. It's pitiable and frankly insulting to all. I'm not trying to be a dick (it comes naturally when I read stuff like this 😉), you are however WRONG - open your mind?
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@matt_aranha hahaha I like the way you said " don't dare ... " why don't you go and study how the human self works maybe , why not? Plus you said im speaking on behalf of u and other men .. arent u talking on behalf of other men too ? Anyways do whatever u like im not changing my mind abt opposite sex friendships even if some exceptions survive the sexual attraction and the boners they get it doesnt mean that most cases are exceptions obviously .
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You was very immature to block him
You should have just expressed your concerns openely and if your not happy then you could have asked for him to no longer message you
Im sure he would be pissed but if the reasons are valid im sure he would respe t and cease contact
Blocking people is the silliest thing girls do without probable cause...
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@tm said in Does he genuinly like me or does he only want me for sex?:
@matt_aranha why don't you go and study how the human self works maybe , why not?
You mean like when I was top of my year out of over a hundred Psychology students and the only one in my class who passed our mid-year exam? What a BRILLIANT idea, why didn't I think of that? 🤦♂️😂
You don't need to study anything to not be judgemental or to have basic human empathy...
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@matt_aranha 👏 Bravo Im clapping for ur teacher
actually !
