I'm not very much familiar with java but I know Kotlin and c++ and python. So ask away I would see if I could help. Man I think the same think from time to time😂
how do you help manage anger?
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@Cold-Sun I've been there. Done that.
Normally what I do is to remain silent and quite and move out of that place under some pretext. Give them bad words will only makes us seem shallow and conceited -
@peepeed420 smoke weed lol kidding just try to take a break from social life go byurself to a nice remote place and question everything you feel try to understand the causes behind ur anger and learn how to chill , such experience will help u find inner peace :)
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@kaia_ thank you for the advice:)))) that reminds me of how people say “i’m so angry i’m about to erupt” but instead of erupt i anger i shall erupt with tears>:) THANK YOU AGAIN<3
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@kaia_ i totally understand that! bottling up emotions makes things worse so i’ll be sure to let out dem angry tears!!
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@Thales_BG THANK YOU SO MUCHHHHHH:) your advice is so insightful! my parents aren’t really uhh “on board” with therapy but once i become independent that’s probably going to be the first thing i’ll go to! i’ve been suspecting the immense anger is a defense mechanism because i’ve been sexually harassed by guys for a while. my father also raised me to be the “don’t take shit from anyone” kind of girl, so that resulted in me physically harming people whenever they bothered me as a child. AGAIN THANK YOU SO MUCHHHH<3 i hope you are doing well
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@The-Mods thank you so much for the advice:) sometimes i like to go into this wooded area in my backyard and just sit in the trees. i will be sure to do that more often!!!! again, thank you<3
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@Thales_BG WOAH IDK IF THE TOPIC WAS ABOUT YOU SPECIFICALLY BUT HAPPY BIRTHDAYYYYYYYY (if it wasn’t then HAPPY EARLY BIRTHDAYYYYY) 🎉 🎈 🎊
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@kaia_ The only thing that'd make you seem shallow and conceited is how conscience-striking your words are in the skirmish but if you do have issues controlling the flow of the Grammer spear, I propose you stick to that but in cases where someone throws back heavy at you and everyone's just exposing uridine diphosphate rhamnosecas, my permission is yours to use the soiled dictionary. And also, if you think you have what it takes to deliver a perfect sting, sting where need be but I won't be there to observe those chest twinnies being swagfully plucked off🤭
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@peepeed420 yeah, that explains a lot. Yeah, you should definitely check with a therapist as soon as you can, it might help you substantially. But there are therapeutic methods you can learn by yourself, to start the healing process while therapy isn't available. From meditation to small incursions into the deeper unconscious (both can be learned from youtube).
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@Cold-Sun If I fight fire with fire, the room will go up in smoke. I better put my ego aside and walk away. And, cry if I have to. It makes me calm down somehow. Once the rage subside, I can magically go back to my usual happy self. Simple as that. I won't hold any silly grudges towards anyone. Maybe yes, my ability to process the emotion of anger is not unlike that of a child.
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@Thales_BG thank youuuu:)) i will definitely check those out! i don’t have a job right now because my parents want me to focus on my studies, BUT once i do i shall save up for some therapy. stay swag>;D
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@kaia_ Harbour no grudge against me but I just can't imagine lol🤣🤣🤣
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@Cold-Sun
.....feeling better after a good cry,
no grudge against you... :innocent:
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@kaia_ That wasn't even a good cry. Come on you can do better than that
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@Cold-Sun :relaxed:
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@kaia_ You've left me in the pool😭😭