Life is complicated and in it all people tend to get lost, chasing every desire that crosses their path. The truth is life has a very simple goal. A relationship with God and a life in search of spiritual growth is the most fulfilling path. Yes I am talking about Jesus. It's probably the answer everyone has heard but it's the truth. Most people think it's about being a good guy and doing what you can to help the community. That is an important part but not the focal point. The main point is to grow in your faith and come closer to God, and on your path share the word with all you meet. We were created to love God and be loved by Him. The wisdom and growth you gain on earth is the only thing you can take with you after death. That is why no material will ever satisfy. You can have all the money in the world, all the lovers, the best home, clothes; but at the end of the day you will die and it will be for nothing. The only thing that can truly benefit you in the long run is a selfless life, one spent in pursuit of holiness, one that gives life to others, one that pleases the Lord. I am walking that path, and this is part of it. If you want to know more, feel free to contact me and I will be happy to answer any questions and have some good conversation. God bless.
What does sorry actually mean?
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@sarcasm said in What does sorry actually mean?:
@Heccikage ah.....tbh yes. Thats what i do. Apologize profusely, usually with long paragraphs of how much they mean to me.
What if it doesn't work??
What If after the long paragraph you repeat the same thing again n again. What happens next?
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@Heccikage well, if the sorry is really genuine then it's enough and yeah things won't go back to normal right away but we can really appreciate that at least they are sorry.. I mean most of the people don't even say that. We can go even further, humans do make mistakes or sometimes go even beyond that because people are motivated and affected by their "conditionings" and "situations/circumstances". In this world, people learn to hate even before they learn to reason.. sure, we get hurt but we can place ourselves in their place and think from their perspectives. if something like that would have happened because of me, we naturally aspect others to understand us right? then why not with others? why not listen to them? if people have that one fault then we must reflect that upon us and see how many faults we have?!
of course somethings would just not make sense to us, we go like- "I wouldn't have done that " but we must remembers that we all are "conditioned" beings and also it would help us if we forgive them, otherwise we will keep burning from within and lose our peace of mind. A humble and a grateful heart is always happy and that can happen only if we learn to forgive and don't let your ego in between. what's more important than people realizing their mistake and trying to work on it right? rather than focusing on what they did, we can look out for why they did it? like core reason? it could be insecurity, greed, ignorance, uncontrolled urges etc. we all are conditioned by all these things, some people have different blend and amounts in their personality traits. how could that love be so insubstantial and weak that over some misdoings we can't accept them back?
Also, there could be a possibility that the person is toxic-we should move away after we have exhausted with all our efforts, tolerance, patience etc. but in either case, it's the people and love which matters.. love means reciprocation, and you can't love things.
long thing short- trust doesn't go back to normal immediately, it takes time but we shouldn't be driven by past mistakes and mishaps and judge others on that basis, especially if that person is trying really hard to transform himself/herself. In "love" our inconveniences doesn't matter much but only the happiness of our loved ones.. if you truly love someone, you must learn to forgive them. -
@Heccikage (talking about real life not TWS) , good enough if u really don't care about the person. But u have to prove it by doing something as a recovery or to please the person if .. the person really matters in your life.
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@Achal99
woah dude well said!!
I think i'll have my grandchildren's running around till I finish reading your comment..😛 -
@Achal99 but you actually said it very nicely..it's meaningful..!!
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@Miss_Imperfect yeah that makes sense
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@Miss_Imperfect I guess by now you must be having two grandchildren? :face_with_tears_of_joy:
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@notyourboy yes it totally does!
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@Achal99 not 2, infinite are running around! I gotta sew them sweaters and shut them up! Gish! There is alot of work as a grandma..😅