I'd like to tell anyone who is struggling to find a reason to carry on; Think of a memory. Think of a time in your life when you were truly happy, no matter how how big or small that moment was, dwell on it. Now think of a time in your life when things were worse than they are for you now, a time when you thought there was nary a chance to come through it in one piece. let it pass through your mind for a moment. Think back to people you have loved, who have loved you in return, regardless of where they are now, take a moment to analyze your triumphs and your failures. understand that no matter what happens in life, you have to keep the goodness from your past held strong in your heart, and carry that joy with you in the darkest of shadows, You need to look back on the events in your life that just about broke you in two, and draw strength from that. You are still here, You're still fighting, even if you don't want to, even if you feel like you cant. embrace that fighting spirit. and turn your pain into motivation, channel all that emotion into a fuel for your will. and keep in mind. there have been times in your life where you knew joy, and those days will return, especially if you FIGHT for them. life doesn't get easier. I wish I could say that it does, but that would be a lie. The difference lies with you. You get better at handling the hardship, and eventually, events that almost broke you will seem like no big deal, so long as you keep striving to do better. the last thing i'd like to say; You can only rely on yourself at the end of the day. Learn to love yourself, accept your flaws, and change the things that are in your power to change. You have to accept yourself for who you are, because you cant break up with, nor cut ties with yourself. you have to accept every mistake and shortcoming and love yourself unconditionally. on top of that, you most likely have people that love you, that need you in this world, and would never be the same without you. You can make it through this, even if you are at your lowest, for if that's the case, the only way to go is up.
Sad and Miss my Ex is that bad?
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Idk I miss my ex we had fun times together but then he moved I still miss him is that a bad thing?? I don't think I could find someone better than him
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how long since he moved?
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just dont look for better, dont even look at all. one day someone will come along and be everything you need 🙂
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@0ADISOR0 like 2 years ago
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been a while, i do know the feeling, dont think i manage to get over a special person yet, and its been more then that:)
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@0ADISOR0 oh yeah I knew him since 5th grade lol
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thats a long time, how long were u2 toghether?
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@0ADISOR0 we started dating when we were like 14
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@Kina_Joy would it heart too much to ask why he moved out?
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@0ADISOR0 Oh he had work to do somewhere eles and we thought that long distance relationship would be to much
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yes i know the feeling, i moved to another country myself and my ex wanted to be close to her parents, so we kinda broke up, think i took me more then a year to recover
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i presume he moved on with his life
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@Kina_Joy Not a bad thing to miss someone who was so important to you and with whom you shared so much, in fact it's completely natural. But you will move forward - one day somebody is going to come along who makes you realise you didn't even know they were what you needed, and make you feel more whole and complete than you ever have before.
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@0ADISOR0 I miss him alot tho we still kinda talk but not as much as we did
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@Matt_Aranha lol I'm not the type of person that moves on
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@Matt_Aranha Thanks matt but I'll try
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@Kina_Joy and u ask him if he feels the same way like you?
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@0ADISOR0 no I don't
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@Kina_Joy I respect that and would never push you to if you aren't ready... I'm still gonna choose to have faith that one day somebody will surprise you though 😉
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@Matt_Aranha lol well my love for people has drained.... I don't really care if I don't have anyone that loves me