@Nimo24 In all honesty I think just leave him. I know that is harsh, but I highly reccomend it, don't waste your energy. He sounds like a douche.
What I mean is, he's promising you things, then cancelling last minute. On top of the cancelling, he's very adamant in saying he loves you even when he's failed you three times (correct me if I'm wrong on that, I may have misread things). I think you should run from the relationship, it's not worth your energy. He'll only emotionally drain you by leading you on like that. Virtual dating is hardly worth it, there are way better fish in the sea. From my experience as a virtual-dater, real-life relationships are much better. Do as you'd like, but I'd say drop him girlie.
how much is too much regarding age gaps in relationships?
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As long as both characters work well with each other i dont mind older or younger guys, as long as we are in the legal range of course.
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@Ashley546 said in how much is too much regarding age gaps in relationships?:
im 15 lol
Ashley, sorry to burst in, but why haven't you asked anybody of your family about this?
You ARE minor, has "he" asked you not to talk to anybody of your entourage?
At LEAST, at the very LEAST, tell somebody who is an adult about this, it can be a teacher if you don't feel comfortable with your family, BUT tell an adult about it, I do not know, some figure who can at least check this "man" out.You are FIFTEEN, you say your "relationship" is with someone who is over many years over your own age.
And you say you haven't spoken of this with anybody in your family.
Next thing, you will find yourself in some rotten place in other country.
Better to be scared, than sorry.
If it was up to me, I'd denounce the bastard immediately. I know not in which country you are, and I know some costumes differ, and arranged marriages and such are often perpetrated in those ages, and even lesser ones, but still, you claim to be 15. And, for the look of what you write, "he" is older than eighteen, and by a long shot.
If it is "he" whom advised you, or even simply Tried to insInuate to "keep this between yourselves", YOU MUST contact your family AND the Police IMMEDIATELY.
DO NOT PLAY WITH THESE THINGS ASHLEY.
YOU TRUST THE WRONG "PERSON", AND IN THESE CASES, ALMOST ALWAYS IT IS THE WRONG ONE, & YOU'LL BE SORRY FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. TELL THIS TO SOME ADULT YOU TRUST. -
@welpthanks and you younger girls are amazing
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Wisdom, experience and mentality (for most) are going to be huge gaps... bigger than age even. Intellectual capacity and intelligence are pretty crucial for relationships. You or they will be greatly activated by that gap as well as maturity. Then there's the issue of common ground and compatibility. Long as ya ain't chatting up a paedophile ya may have a small chance...
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@abw422 In your case it really depends on the guy, his maturity and what he would be seeking from the relationship. Usually I'd agree with what others have already said - age means nothing when two people are right for each other and their affection is genuine, it tends to be others who make an issue of it and cause problems rather than the age being a problem in itself.
Personally I've never paid attention to the age of people I date. I've been ten years either way in the past and am currently in the early stages of a relationship with someone 17 years younger than me. I don't think of her as a 22-year old though; I see her for her interests, the things we have in common, and how she makes me laugh. If you find a relationship like that where you aren't thinking about ages either, you'll be just fine.
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This same fucking thing happened to me lol (*Same pinch)
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lol im talking about my ex he was 35, and fyi he treated me good
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The max age difference should be 5 years not more than that
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@abw422 tell me how young are you ??
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@John-Snow-007 5 years is so small
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@Ashley546 no it's ideal
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@Ashley546 what's your age and what's your exs age
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@Ashley546 after 5 years there's a difference in mind and body between the individuals , for a short term it dosent matter but a long term more it makes a huge difference
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@John-Snow-007 im 15 he was in his early 40s
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@Ashley546 wtf you're too underage
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@Ashley546 why are you dating him he's your dad's age
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@John-Snow-007 because i like him, he likes me, and he treats me right
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@Ashley546 do you know anyone with the same gap? Or bigger?
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@Ashley546 hello ashley, how are you
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not at all, its good. its about connection, not age