Friends are something that an average person needs. Humans are just made that way. But I think it's not correct to think that friends can fix everything, as well as that friends will stay in your life forever. Throughout life you will meet dozens of people and make many friends. But only one or two out of hundreds will be something you may call a "real friend". That's if you are lucky enough to meed someone with similar mindset and values that you have. People you call 'friends' will walk out of your life for different reasons (they may be insignificant or important) and will stay with you for different amounts of time. That's why I think that it's better if you put yourself/your life/feelings first most of the times when it comes to your friends. You can stay in a really good relationship with them even if you don't always put them first or give all of yourself into these relationships. Because each one of us have their own lifes to take care of. Those people who will want to stay with you and will understand you/love you - will stay. And those who don't - won't. Whatever you do for them. It depends on the mindset of the other party. Loving, helping, caring for your friends is great, but if you put them above other important things like yourself, then they will get used to it. And most people won't do the same for you or will try to use your love for their own emotional self-satisfaction. That's just how it is. So I think you just need to do everything in moderation and state values right in life.
Tell Me What You Want, What Your Really Really Want
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Pick ONE, and explain why, please! Choose wisely
1 I Want to Disappear - Marilyn Manson
2 I Want To Break Free - Queen
3 I Want You, I Need You, I Love You - Triband
4 I Want You - Janet Jackson
5 (I Want To Live On An) Abstract Plain - Black Francis
6 I Want Candy - Bow Wow Wow
7 I Want To Hear It From You - Gordon Lightfoot
8 I Want Out - Helloween
9 I Want A New Drug - Huey Lewis and The News
10 I Want to Be Loved - Bon Jovi
11 I Want The One I Can't Have - The Smiths
12 I Want You So Bad - Heart
13 I Want To Hold Your Hand - The Beatles
14 I Want It That Way - Backstreet Boys
15 I Want You To Want Me - Cheap Trick
16 I Want A Woman - Ratt
17 I Want You Back - The Jackson 5
18 I Want to Be Ready - Ben Harper
19 I Want Your Girlfriend to Be My Girlfriend Too - Reel Big Fish
20 I Want It All - Eurythmics -
I Want It That Way because
You are my fire
My one desire
So believe me when I say
I want it that way -
@Nia-Rox Good choice Nia!! :grin: I like, I like
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@Lazz Lazz for me it would have to be I want you by Elvis Costello, the most brutally honest and anguished song i know, give it a whirl bro
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@Scottish Ahhh, I see what ya did there. Adding to the list, eh? Bonus points for creativity!
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@Lazz
I want you, because I feel like it's the most underrated yet the best release. Truly underappreciated. -
@LilyLillian Good choice, and thoughtful explanation as to why, too. :grin:
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@Lazz not really thoughtful but thank you! 😂
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@LilyLillian Welcome, And now I'll have fantasies in my mind all day of you saying "I want you" haha
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Hmm. I would have chosen I Want that Man by Debbie Harry, because Debbie Harry is the coolest girl in the world and I'll fight anyone who says otherwise.
Failing that,
@Lazz said in Tell Me What You Want, What Your Really Really Want:
5 (I Want To Live On An) Abstract Plain - Black Francis
Because The Pixies are the business. I used to listen to them in the 90's on the way home from work, and then I'd get in and watch The X-Files and it would be like Frank Black was friends with Mulder.
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@Lazz Now you blow me away Lazz, how surprising! You may do so, it was all intentional:)
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@Indrid-Cold Mulder, who was in tight with Scully, eh? Am I right, am I right? Good one!
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@LilyLillian I should have known from the start. You've got outstanding intentions, you do
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@Lazz WEREN'T WE ALL?
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These songs aren't that great to start with.
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If you had whole lots love, thata diffetent
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@Indrid-Cold THAT'S an X-File I'd gladly...investigate
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@Lazz hehehe (laughs like Mexican bandido)
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I want memes
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@Indrid-Cold i still listen to the pixies all the time, one of my holy trinity of bands (velvet underground and the jesus and mary chain are the other two) Saw them in Glasgow back in the day and also Frank Black and the catholics with joey santiago on guitar, think it was the tour for teenager of the year, one of my favourite album covers of all time, just silly and makes me laugh