I'm probably the most afflicted tbh. I know I am supposed to rise above the passions of the flesh, but the world advertises so profusely it makes it nearly impossible to destroy my desires, not to mention peer pressure. I mean when you try to rise above such things people will resent you, and love to see you fail. I kept resisting the times I had a chance to be with a woman in bed, and now after all these years knowing I don't have what it takes I can't seem to find a partner to save my life. I am a believer, and so I consider that what Jesus said to get married if I cannot rise above the passions of the flesh, but also that he advised against marriage itself because it is worldly. It's already hard to bear such a cross, but these times, and many times before the world is full of non discretion, even though deep down I'm sure even though most of us have given up on sacred vows of commitment that the idea of being sacred, romantic, and dedicated to one sexual partner is beautiful to most of us even still. I suspect to even those who try to destroy hopes of such a thing still regard its splendor, but yet desires of the flesh are just an excuse for the enemy to swarm us with the furnace, and burn us when we covet what we cannot have. It's sad. I am a horny guy, but I gotta get married or its not blessed. Maybe I should get fixed lmao