@prasath-rayappan Hii how are you?
Pick two out of physical chemistry, lifestyle compatibility, emotional compatibility and intellectual compatibility.
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@spacegirl thanks
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@cjko To me it is lifestyle compatibility and emotional compatibility.I have chosen lifestyle compatibility because i think if my partner belongs to same ethnicity,culture,religion and social status we will be able to cooperate and understand each other better becoz our way of thinking will like to be same and we will be also physically compatible.Secondly i have chosen emotional compatibility becoz if our way of thinking and emotions towards each other matches we will be able to take decisions in life together without any mental clashes.
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@spacegirl said in Pick two out of physical chemistry, lifestyle compatibility, emotional compatibility and intellectual compatibility.:
@cjko Because some things, can not be understood by our minds. Irrational and illogical, but at the same time, so deeply involved in humans relationships. Maybe not spiritual, maybe psychological. Try to choose any word, all of them will be wrong.
Yeah, I too feel there might be something like spiritual compatibility. I think it's a thing.
Psychological might more be on the emotional / intellectual side.
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@cjko I would pick physical chemistry and emotional compatibility...according to me these are a must in a relationship. If you don't feel emotinally connected to and compatible with your partner it definitely leads to many arguments and differences in the relationship and well we all know how important physical compatibility is in a relationship its not just about sex but the concept of becoming one(I guess I've gone too far with that😅) but yeah if chemistry and sparks are missing in a relationship it definitely is a fail to begin with.
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In fact I think it is more important the emotional compatibilty, it all comes down to familiarity and we are, since very little, recieving and building a background of our emotions and the emotions that surround us. As we grow old, we expect to find reencounter most of the emotions we felt as kids, because that's the enviornment we feel comfortable in, even if it's not good or limitating for us. Thanks
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@Roney1718 there are still "mental clashes" that will going to happen even if you're compatible.. it's inevitable. It's about compromise at the end.
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@petrapark3r I agree..
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@Anastasia-Smith thanks for sharing your views.. :)
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@davitchen hmm, thanks
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Lifestyle, and emotional compatibility, because I have a very strange and difficult lifestyle that would make it so much easier if I had a woman who was emotionally compatible with me through it all, and regardless of how sexy she was, or smart we would get through the struggles together being on the same page consistently.
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@steelfirehawk strange and difficult lifestyle.. what is it?
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@cjko just mostly my hatred for the system of mankind. I have struggled to be content allowing myself to be peer pressured to remain caught in it like a common cog, but if I had a partner who would leave it behind with me as a leap of faith I know it would be a hard life.
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@steelfirehawk I see.. well, you can't please everyone and you can't change what is happening in the human kind.