I would prefer very much not to be "remembered".
I found out that to be remembered can be heavy.
It's harder to live up to the standards of those who died, than to those of them still alive. One can almost always ask forgiveness of living people.
How does one do? I made a promess and since the woman I made it to died, I've no other choice but to follow it: no "chance to explain why I could not keep it". So the bar stays as high as it could ever get.
When did you last let your heart decide? :)
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Haha hmm when?
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@cjko
On Saturday ! -
@cjko just now😂
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the real question is when have I let my head decide
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When I replied to "her" last Xmas.
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@cjko Today :joy:
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@MangoMan33 what happened then?
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@vishkun wow.. what happened?
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@A-P hHa you always follow your heart not your head..
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@Lurker do you think it's the right decision? :)
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@spaceboy when what?
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@Saloniii hmm what happened?
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Nope... It wasn't the right decision, at all :joy:
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@cjko
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@Lurker haha I see.. why not ?
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@MangoMan33 that's nice to hear
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Cuz sometimes what the heart wants is not the best for ourselves.
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@Lurker ahh that's absolutely true. When it feels really right but it's actually wrong.
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@cjko Maybe a few weeks ago....n I had to face the horrible consequences today :shrug: