Would you let your best friend date your EX?

[cjko]

a BIG question for everyone.. would you? and why ? :D

[Kimiko]

Sure, who am I not to allow two people who love each other to be together?
From the moment my boyfriend stops being my boyfriend, his management of his love life and sexuality is no longer my concern.
As for my best friend, as long as she remains loyal and doesn´t allow her relationship to get in the way of our friendship, I don´t see a major problem.

[Wolfie_11]

@cjko
Ofcourse.
If they like each other then who the heck are we to stop them.
I would let my bestie face the wrath of my ex himself. He is responsible for the journey that he is about to undertake.

[A Former User]

@cjko

Would you let your best friend date your ex?

Case 1: My ex is a good human:
YES
Case 2: He is an ahole:
NOPE

[Wolfie_11]

@cjko
As I said, he has the right to choose his partner. Maybe something that didn’t click between me and my ex, maybe my best friend can give her that. Maybe they’re the one who are meant for each other and I was just a messenger, a mode to make them meet each other.

[MAUI]

Kill them with kindness i would say.

[A Former User]

@Alte

@Kana But.. wouldnt it be weird to know he shags ur friend like he shaged u? And then ur friend tells you how great in bed he is, and youre like "ye i know", and shes like "oh right, sorry".

Uhmm idk... o.o

(lol)

[cjko]

@Wolfie_11 are you really her/his best friend? you want him/her to suffer too? Even if you can prevent her/him from taking the same path you took? yOU will just let your best friend got hurt ?

[Wolfie_11]

@cjko
Rare case? I have seen my ‘same’ ex dwell and gel together and develop deep feelings for so many of my friends lol.
On a serious note, its not rare actually. Everyone is someone’s ex at some point of life. Doesn’t mean they are bad or you’re bad, its just that it didn’t work out.

[MAUI]

Ladies come and goes, learning is constantly. Just dont be afraid to love. Defensive mechanism tends to push females away because it tells my brain i dont wanna go through the same pain . But i analyze. And stay true.

[Zack Williamson]

@cjko said in Would you let your best friend date your EX?:

a BIG question for everyone.. would you? and why ? :D

Why not ?Afterall he will date my ex girlfriend not current one. It could be a problem for me if he dates her just after our break-up. In that situation, I will assume that she was already cheating on me. My assumption may be correct till 99%.

[Kaho]

@cjko

@cjko said in Would you let your best friend date your EX?:

a BIG question for everyone.. would you?

NEVER!!!!!! Or if she left me for him.. I don't mind.. Maybe it depends..

and why ? :D

In "NEVER!!!" case, I wanna die her virgin 😂😂
Or
In "if she left me for him" case, she left me for him, I can't stop her .. But if they get into relationship I'll ask for treat to him and her fo sho 😂😂😂 ..
(this thing never happen with me tho)

[VioletApple]

@cjko I don't have any exes and my only one best friend is a callant LMAO but if ever I have a gal babe? I'll let her do what she wants. Past is past, no big deal as for me. If she got hurt? I'm gonna laugh at her coz this bish is definitely a stubborn peanut she never learn from me! LEWL

[Saloniii]

@cjko Yes
Bcoz it's none of my business..

[What is this]

@cjko No best friend would do such thing, in my opinion

[cjko]

@What-is-this I agree. Respecting your best friend's feeling is the key

[TheGoldenMole]

@cjko My best friend can do whatever they want, but if they date my ex they wont be my best friend anymore 😂

[Alte]

@Kana But.. wouldnt it be weird to know he shags ur friend like he shaged u? And then ur friend tells you how great in bed he is, and youre like "ye i know", and shes like "oh right, sorry".

[Saloniii]

@cjko if my best friend is gone date with my EX then . it shows that she won't care abt me so i won't think that is my business

[Wolfie_11]

@cjko
Seriously? What made you think so?
Are we all not entitled to a chance?
We're prone to judgements and sometimes they do turn out to be wrong.
There are various reasons why we break up with our ex.. and unless its something not related to cheating/treachery, I see no bad in letting my best friend to go through with their relationship.