I don't think there is a cure so much but ways to manage it. You just have to find out what helps for you and what your triggers are? like my son is autistic and if he gets anxious he has this squishy ball. Me i listen to music, read a book or doing some colouring on my ipad.....
What are the 3 things you do when you accidentally hurt someone? :)
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@cjko OMG .... busted by ... U.K. T#@ A*![£# O% T#@ E¥$€
Whaaaa
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@mr_peanut hahahaha
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@cjko I did say I would apologise before running for the hills hahaha :P
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@mr_peanut go road runner fan... hehhee
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Say how sorry I am for a couple of times. (It may annoyed them, but still)
Feel bad about it for a couple of months (i would be more careful around them)
Until I forgot about it, moving on (back to normal, comfortable around them but not like before)
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@cjko
1:say sorry
2:repeatedly feel guilt about it
3:survive the next month feeling guilty about it until I slowly forget it -
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- Run away as fast as I can
- Hope they don't get angry with me
- If they do, apologize
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@cjko Hurt someone in a relationship or someone in general?
for the latter case, I'd say sorry many many times immediately after the wrong doing happens,
and the next day I would ask him/her for forgiveness again
possibly the day after thatWhen I see your question, I'm thinking about how I would accidentally injure someone in basketball back in hs, I was really bad at it and always trying to push, that what I would do, guess was an awkward social try-hard for sure
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- If I hurt my enemy accidentally , then I'll rather be happy 😁 and say a fake sorry .
- If I hurt a stranger accidentally then I'll say sorry and move on .
- If I hurt my loved ones accidentally then I'll say sorry and try my best to make them forgive me.
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@one-punch-taco hahaha thanks for sharing your ideas.. :) well, you can use it in general. Hahaha you shouldn't do that to someone :)
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@cutie-cat this is so lovely and dearly. :)
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@cjko Thanks 😊
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@cel cheers to a happy life ! :)
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@rabbitboy hehhe that's okay.. don't worry that much. :)
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@mr_peanut hahaha is wood runner a duck or bird? hahha
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@wojta hahha as fast as the falsh. lol
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@cjko said in What are the 3 things you do when you accidentally hurt someone? :):
@rabbitboy hehhe that's okay.. don't worry that much. :)
“Don’t worry”
I don’t get it.. what language you using? -
@rabbitboy never mind it or stop overthinking.. :)
from which country are you ?
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@cjko Canada I speak fluently English and French