i enjoy making people fall in love with me but i don't like staying in love


  • i like making people fall for me. i enjoy the attention they give me and the kind of happiness and satisfaction they get when they think i like them back. there's a thrill in talking to new people and getting to know all different types. i've never really told anyone this so they always think i love them. love makes them have blind spots and i know it's not morally right to play with people's feelings but it's like an adrenaline rush that you can drag out and throw away after you're done with it.


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  • @sir-devil true but it's like a hobby to me, so entertaining


  • @fitz well, what can I say? It's not like I could physically stop you but remember that every action that we commit has some kind of consequence and effects


  • @sir-devil well yeah the consequences are they learn their blind spots and don't make it so easy for people to play with their emotions. other than the fact that they basically got played for enjoyment and entertainment it's a pretty good lesson


  • @fitz well, from that point of view, you are in a twisted kind of way, helping them.
    but still, it's a dick move...


  • if its the adrenaline rush youre after, jumped off a cliff or a plane, ride the scariest most dangerous ride out there, idk find another "hobby" to satisfy your need for the rush instead of leading people on and playing and probably messing up with their emotions


  • @fitz said in i enjoy making people fall in love with me but i don't like staying in love:

    i like making people fall for me. i enjoy the attention they give me and the kind of happiness and satisfaction they get when they think i like them back. there's a thrill in talking to new people and getting to know all different types. i've never really told anyone this so they always think i love them. love makes them have blind spots and i know it's not morally right to play with people's feelings but it's like an adrenaline rush that you can drag out and throw away after you're done with it.

    Sounds like ur Christian grey from 50 shades of grey 😂😂


  • @khai but it's better than jumping out of a plane in a way because they're so vulnerable with you and you hold them in the palm of your hand and you know the power you have over them. don't get me wrong, skydiving is awesome but it only lasts a few minutes whereas playing people takes months and sometimes years to gain their trust but when you finally have it, it's useless because there is no other wall to tear down for them to let you in so they're rendered useless therefore expendable


  • @fitz wait... what do you mean years? I thought you were doing these for few days or weeks... Are you manipulating them for years? That's so fucked up. It would leave them, so broken that they would never trust another human being in their entire life. It may even lead to suicide in some cases. Dude, that's really fucked up. Dude, get some help. These kinds of sadistic pleasure are not good for you..


  • @fitz and how long are you going to keep on doing this? At a certain point, you would not be able to make a lasting relationship. Are you sure you want to continue this? At this point, you saying that you are helping them, is just you deflecting your sadistic behavior... That's all I want to say


  • @sir-devil but i thought you weren't bias? it's mostly people in the military who i know have cheated on someone and so it's kinda like karma in a way. i mean i know what i do is fucked it but people get over far greater shit than a breakup or a broken heart all the time. if anything i'm making them stronger emotionally and mentally


  • Ouch, that stings


  • @fitz but still, manipulating them for years is not good... What do you mean, they get over greater shit? The shit you are doing would be the one giving them a broken heart. My opinion is not biased. I saw things from your perspective and saw nothing but sadistic pleasure. It's not like blatantly accusing you of it. You said it yourself. You said that you feel an adrenaline rush. At what? Their pain?

    "It's like karma"? Who said it's fine, just because it's karma? and who made you the one, to deliver their karma? and do you only manipulate the ones that are married or in a relationship?

    You said that you are making them stronger emotionally and mentally. That may have been true if it was done over a short period of time but in your case, you are doing it for several months. It WILL NOT make them stronger, it would just leave them broken.

    Is there still something to justify your actions? Do you deny that you find no pleasure in their pain? Do you also deny that you are not doing this just for fun? I'm open to your thoughts...


  • @fitz date me


  • @sir-devil it's not about their pain because anyone can have pain. it's about the work it takes me to gain their trust, to know their darkest secrets and to know just how vulnerable they are in my hand because i have that power and they don't know i have that kind of power until i just one day leave them and then they're in a corner broken or whatever it's called. the thrill is knowing all the types of people there are in this world. it's knowing how to get into the minds of every person you want because once you figure out how they work, you add it to your list of things to know about the human emotions and their complexity. to me personally, it's beautiful knowing you can break a person without ever laying a finger on them. vulnerability is liability and liability can cause death


  • @fitz so, you do accept that you do not care about your victims and your actions might lead to suicide...

    so, do you accept that you are doing this, just because you want to and not for some grand reasons like karma or lessons?


  • I agree with you!!!
    I love making people fall for me, it kinda boost my ego and my confidence.
    But usually I don't realize what I'm doing, until some of my friends told me that person is falling for me, or that person starts doing extraordinary things for me.
    it. is. uh-mazing!

    uhhh I miss doing that so much.

    *damn i sound like i'm a bad person. i am not. I never intend to do that on purpose.


  • @sir-devil i know what @fitz, and apparently me, enjoy doing is in no way a good thing to do. but people do bad things, it's human nature.
    as for leading to suicide, dear lord i hope it doesn't get there, u really have to know the limit. don't abuse the power you have.

    as for karma. god dammit, i get my karma alright. these people, some occasions the same person i play with, left me, without any reason, without good byes, and it haunts me for years. it still haunts me tho.


  • @helow123 that's what I am saying too, everything's fine as long as you have a limit. He says that he does that over a long period of time, sometimes years. During the said time, he would learn about their character and all their darkest secrets and after they have placed their complete trust, he would throw them away like they are expendable. He said that himself. It would leave them broken and if they are fragile, it may even lead to suicide.