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Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me
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So there's this guy who used to like me since high school days but was always a bit shy and awkward to talk to me... I didn't think of him in that way during those days... idk 7-8 years later the tables are turned. I can't stop thinking about him and I feel too nervous and awkward to talk to him.
Its not that I want to date him.. i know it wont work out.. yet, i cant stop thinking about him.. I dont know what to do? -
Just smile u can't do any thing
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Just eat ass
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@ghomsi thats quite sad actually.
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@BloodDrunk how rude.
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What happened to reverse the situation?
How can you say a story can't work?
If you want to talk to him and get to know him better .. go ahead or you will live with regrets. Maybe nothing will be born, but who knows at least the friendship could last over time .. :)
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Get another crush 😂
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There is nothing much you can do here. You can either confess to him and try to make it work(nothing wrong with trying) or suppress your feelings and move on
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It depends what you think you want from him - a relationship, a hook-up, friendship?
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@Shardana Actually we are still friends. We started talking on Whatsapp during college 1st year and kind of grew a bit closer. But it didnt get anywhere since we were in different cities far from each other. But i dont think he'd had any problem if we went into a long distance relationship. It was me who suddenly stopped talking to him.
But we talked a bit again in around Aug2020. I have been thinking about him ever since. We recently met in a school reunion too. I tried talking to him more face to face but I kept feeling so nervous and awkward around him.
Idk should I just tell him or shall I date someone else to move on.. its so weird to feel this way.. -
@Cybernatic I thought about confessing. But I dont think I have the right anymore. I literally ignored and turned down his confessions more than once in the past. What if Karma hits me back!
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I tried talking more face to face but I kept feeling so nervous and awkward around him.
Yeah that awkward nervousness, it's better to stay quiet or else you'll ruin it somehow.
It gets really awkward and then you start ignoring the other person because you feel embarrassed 🤦♂️
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@Yongsi-Brook In your case there are three options- make a move and be accepted, make a move and be rejected, do nothing. Do nothing-is the worst.
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@Don_ said
Get another crush 😂
Awesome storyI think having a crush is very exhausting 😔
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@Don_ said
I tried talking more face to face but I kept feeling so nervous and awkward around him.
Yeah that awkward nervousness, it's better to stay quiet or else you'll ruin it somehow.
It gets really awkward and then you start ignoring the other person because you feel embarrassed 🤦♂️
It's a dumb thing. Very dumb.Wow. You sound like you have gone through it too .
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@Vlad_21 said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Yongsi-Brook In your case there are three options- make a move and be accepted, make a move and be rejected, do nothing. Do nothing-is the worst.
What if I tell you that the most scariest thing to me is making a move and be accepted and it does not works out.?!
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It depends what you think you want from him - a relationship, a hook-up, friendship?
This is interesting. I dont know yet. Gotta think about it.
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How can you say a story can't work?
Its just a gut feeling that it wont. None of my past relationships ended on a good note.
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first of all it all has to do with karma ( cause and effect ) you craving for him now is the result of his manifestation all along his childhood 🤦🏼♂️
Anyways don't make the first move even if you are desperate for him unless the guy is matured enough 🤙🏻 guys take advantage of it 🤧 you should always be in the safe side whatsoever . peace ✌🏻 -
@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Don_ said
Get another crush 😂
Awesome storyI think having a crush is very exhausting 😔
Crush them, simply.