@SamK I can totally relate you can talk to me if you want but maybe try talking to ur wife? and by ghosting do you mean like ya'll aren't in the same house and talking threw messages?
if not spam her :pensive: mb
Why a boy can't cry!!??
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I'm hurt but I can't cry? Why? Oh I see, just because I'm a boy? So my emotions, feelings all of these are covered by a stone wall!right?
If I cry I might feel low infront of others. It's a prestigious matter nah? A girl can cry, can erase her feelings or can be light by crying but we can't.. if we cry it will be a question on our MANISM? No buddy, crying is expressing urself whn u r sad n sometimes whn u r happy also. If u can express urself then only u can start a next day with a fresh mind. If u don't cry when u need,then u can't start ur next day with a fresh find. Cry loudly one day or Cry silently for whole life.. Choice is urs.. But remember one thing, we got one life n one chance to create memories. Don't loose it. Cry to wash away all stress n depressions. Otherwise u will loose urself.☺ -
Idk why. I guess it just shows people that we aren’t “masculine” enough and it sucks. One times i got in trouble and my dad wouldn’t stop yelling and grounded me for like a month. I got sad and just cried in my locker when I got to school and a girl walked past and called me Thin Skinned, btw it didn’t help me. then I noticed I just have to hold in my emotions so that I can be treated like others!
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@Tommy-8-24 No buddy,it is not. Crying is something which helps everyone to survive. Whn u r hungry,why u take foods? Why don't u think for anything then? Caz it helps u to fill up ur hunger. Just like this, crying is also a solution of depression n loneliness. Treat it like the same way. A man who cried, shared everything with himself only can feel the way of life. If u don't cry loudly one day,trust me! U will cry whole life silently. Silent pain is nothing but a step ahead of suicide.
Start crying and reduces ur negative emotions. It will help u in every ways -
Noo , boys also can cry , they are human as well , n crying isn't always a weakness , sometimes we cry cry bc we're happy , but I don't like to cry in front of people even though Im a girl, I prefer to cry on my own, in order to empty all my bad feelings, and such boys can cry because they're human, and they feel the same way, I personally didn't see a boy crying, but certainly if I find a boy crying, I won't insult him or make fun of me but I'll hug him and tell him to keep crying.
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@Lucifer114 toxic masculinity is making you feel this way. love, it is okay to cry. it is okay to be yourself.
they/them!
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@Lucifer114 These are not tears...
They are the soul of my heart
and along with them bears
all my feelings and pain;
they are fearless,
they are courageous,
and unlike me,
they are bold enough;
They silently tell others
what I couldn't dare
about my feelings
and also about
the few things
that were
left unsaid....they think i am out of the race , they don't know i have just started.....
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@solveeeig respect ur thoughts n exactly I also didn't see a boy crying. That's the only reason I have posted
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@baldshinobi I want every boy to cry loudly when they need. This way we can save many lives. Number of suicides will also reduce
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@Mickeyyyyy nice one
