What to do if your family rejects you ?????Help??????????????Please.

[Jeosha Frazee]

They hate me so much .

[Scottish]

@Jeosha-Frazee Fuck 'em! You can't choose your family but you can choose your friends, turn to them for support and comfort. Are you quite young? Family dynamics and relationships change over time. Things may well take a turn for the better. Keep your chin up buttercup

[NewtTrouble]

@Jeosha-Frazee You've read one side. Now read another. I am a family member that has rejected a parent. My aunt is family member that has rejected her sibling. My brother, grandfather, grandmother... Sometimes it isn't about us, sometimes it's about you.

My parent has lied, cheated, stole, and hated. Begged for forgiveness and then comitted the same crimes. Spent hours using guilt to sharpen their tongue. Spat cruel words and left mental scars. So tell me... how can you help someone that doesn't want help? Who only wants what they want and to hell with everyone that can not immediately comply tinto bending to their every will. Why did we eventually cross the line and say no to this individual?

"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” - Albert Einstein

No one knows which story is yours better than you. The biggest advice I can give to you is; you need to communicate with your family and find what is the root of the treatmeant they are currently giving you? Maybe there was a misunderstanding among you guys. Find a way to come to some conclusions. Perhaps they are wrong and you are right. Maybe that is blue to you and indigo to me, but that doesn't mean one of us is wrong. You just need to figure out that middle ground of understanding one another.

[NewtTrouble]

@knownsense Sometimes I forget that not everyone has the same freedoms and strengths that I do. I wanna believe that everyone is capable of progressing as an individual and can think for themselves, but sometimes I fail to understand why this isn't possible with some folks.

Many factors go into such a fantasy and if you come from a country that shames you for having your own thoughts and punishes you for wanting to reach out and learn without fear of being judged, it makes it even more difficult and can be difficult on both people trying to make a connection. Different cultures clash when they are raised and taught differently. Only through careful communication can you hope to learn without being accused of being bad and wrong or scaring each other away.

The more I communicate with others, the more fond I grow of this song. I wish more people would have the strength to speak up. Too much is done for the wrong reasons because no one dares to speak up.

[Scottish]

@Jeosha-Frazee You're welcome. And keep talking about it. Remember it's not you, it's them. You'll find a lot of empathy and support on here. I've always had difficult relationships with my family. It used to eat me up but i learned to live with it. It becomes a way of life. Humans are remarkable creatures, we can adapt to anything if we have no choice

[wiinierox]

they aren't your "family" then.. and I hope you can find your real one

[Krott]

Don't quit...

[Greymatter]

If Your family rejects you and you try hard ro explain your situation and still they dont accept you. Personally if i feel I STill love them i still help them because they are dear to my heart but its my life and if i made a mistake ill try to fix it

[Jeosha Frazee]

Thank you so much

[knownsense]

Family you do not choose it's given from universe to protect you or not to feel alone, when you needed most. What ever you are now it's your past experience, that even includes family, they love, you love them thats the universal truth but liking it or disliking it it's you choice.
Now you appreciate it what you gained from them all, you have to do is breathe let it go observe.
Easiest way is to forgive yourself and You no need to feel regret or guilt, that make you not to move forward all you feel pitty and sadness for yourself leads to depression..
Have a wonder day!!!
All you have to do is accept as it is without likes and dislikes adiós brother

[Jeosha Frazee]

Thank you

[hypatkesq]

Work on your flaws, that maybe the reason the hate you. ❤

[knownsense]

What ever u r now it's Ur past experience negative or positive, good or bad, morality or immorality,truth or unthruth it's just pure situation.
U learn and gain knowledge with experience Ur past knowledge which is dealt , dealing the dealt situations, repeatedly do not make sense in my brain

In my surroundings all I hear about the failure memories, discuss about it, to keep busy in mind,regreting feeling bad and pitty for the self, all it does stop growing or knowing the self.
wondering about could have should have, would have, connecting past memories to future illusion, forgeting about preciousness of now
Breathe , observe, let it go and be wise respond without like and dislikes

[Jeosha Frazee]

Thank you

[knownsense]

@NewtTrouble
What ever u r now it's Ur past experience negative or positive, good or bad, morality or immorality,truth or unthruth it's just pure situation.
U learn and gain knowledge with experience Ur past knowledge which is dealt , dealing the dealt situations, repeatedly do not make sense in my brain

In my surroundings all I hear about the failure memories, discuss about it, to keep busy in mind,regreting feeling bad and pitty for the self, all it does stop growing or knowing the self.
wondering about could have should have, would have, connecting past memories to future illusion, forgeting about preciousness of now
Breathe , observe, let it go and be wise respond without like and dislikes

[knownsense]

@Jeosha-Frazee
No mention happy being, I am glad it helped you
Cheers mate

[Jeosha Frazee]

Thank u from the bottom of my heart

[knownsense]

@Jeosha-Frazee
Feelings it's just a sensation, comes and goes away every moment ,holding to one particular moment and go crazy is it make sense ??

[NewtTrouble]

@knownsense I agree. What you gain in experience does have a tendency to shape you into the person you become. Sometimes you live and learn, but sometimes you learn to live. It all depends on what you choose for yourself. The past does not hold me back and the future is uncertain. It is best to concentrate on now, because that is what is immediate and it requires most of your attention.

There is nothing I regret. Everything I have ever done has taught me something. I am no saint. I have sinned many times, but I regret nothing. I have failed, I have lost, I have destroyed friendships based on miscommunication, but I am not responsible for how others feel nor will I ever command such ideas. It is not my duty to make you smile, it is not my responsibility to make you feel a certain way. Only you can command such emotions of yourself and only of yourself.

[Jeosha Frazee]

@wiinierox thanks