Do you think life has been fair with you till now??

[Paulo L. Alves]

@daciana

I assume so far I've could done better with a few people and myself and if karma is real I could afirme im frustrated with some issues, but I don't wanna believe this is out of my control...

[lucifer2satan]

I don't know if life has been fair with me. And I am an atheist. So no one's God can help me get a fair life but me. Till now I've been through a lot of ups and downs and recently I've been feeling low. But I believe good things are waiting for me. So I think if not now, maybe tomorrow or the day after, I'll feel good again.

[Johannes Julians]

@Lazz Haha, I do love that quote!

[Just Ella]

@daciana I do see people whom I think are getting less when they deserve to experience more.

But I never thought of life being consistently either fair or unfair.

It varies from time to time and it basically just depends on how a person perceives the things that he/she deserves.

[[[global:former-user]]]

@daciana Let me approach answering your question little indirectly. I think you'll perceive my proposition better.

An atheist friend was recently trying to justify the nonexistence of God using several aprioristic theories. I am pretty convinced by him!
BUT....
I never knew that I was destined to justify the existence of God in a way that makes no reference to the validity of his apriorism. I told him about Life — a greater truth about life. Most of us come across a series of events at a certain point in our lives when we are left with no clue as to what mistakes we have committed for which we're being punished. We often try to avoid those events or undo them but we fail to carve our lives the way we want them to be. Sometimes we are so unlucky that those events bring exactly the opposite outcome of what we might have desired. And the bitter truth is that we cannot avoid accepting what comes our way. Now, the point I tried making was that those who believe in God will eventually start accepting these events sometimes as punishments for their misdeeds of the past lives and sometimes as opportunities to rectify their mistakes in their present lives. They become introspective and keep correcting themselves by believing that God has always a better life to give ahead of the present days. Even if this way of thinking may appear unscientific, it makes them more sensible in leading a balanced life. However, true atheists are either those who do not believe in the existence of God or those who think God has been cruel to them. The second type of atheists think they are theistic but do not understand that true believers cannot doubt in the unending love and benevolence of God. Nevertheless, both the kinds of atheists fail to accept the upheavals of life. Hence, even if they are more scientific, they lack the ability to deal with this greater truth about life. I do have a feeling that most scientists, who have later been recognised as great philosophers of the modern world, have understood this underlying importance of theistic faith in God, irrespective of their belief in religion or in the conventional advocacy of the theories on "sin and righteousness"! So, whether you think God has right events for you or not is absolutely your own perception about life. Do you really know what you deserve?

[Tall M]

@daciana life is unfaire with me, it has given too much to me i think. As in the people i met and the luck i have. While some people just get fucked for no reasons

[[[global:former-user]]]

Who am I decide whether my life was fair to me or not, no one is worthy enough to decide that and I am not even talking it in meta physical (god/religious) sense. I don't believe in god, so for me there is absolutely no one to decide whether its fair or not. Though many people can question my life (myself included) but can't conclude anything from them. Life is not meant to be fair, neither it is meant to be unfair. Life is just a reflection of your choices, life shouldn't carry a meaning, its not meant to carry a meaning, life is subjective, you can claim that your life is fair or not but I can tell whatever you conclude its pretty wrong, you can call your life unfair but there will always be atleast one person who dream to live a life like yours.

[[[global:former-user]]]

Well idk what is fair and what is not..but i believe everything happens or a reason. And the people you are talking about whom you have seen get what they didn't deserve or not get what they did deserve .....i would like to tell you i am 100% sure you couldn't have been there with them all the times of their life to see if they did deserved that or not. I know we face a lot of hardships and we often feel like we don't deserve whatevers happening with us but if these are necessary for our lives, if they weren't there in our life our life would've been so plain and simple ....those hardships are what makes it our lives and sometimes those hardships only get us out of some bigger problems. Just remember one thing always be happy and just accept whatever is happening to you ..everything happens for the best

[hypatkesq]

@happymiss @happymiss yes everything Happens for a reason no doubt, that's why I learnt to accept your snub and know everything happens for the Best nice write-up thou

[abdou19]

@daciana In short, everything from God is good and we must accept it because God is infallible.