In religious studies you see It says life is fair because God is fair and has justice. I believe that God has justice but I don't believe he uses that in this world.
I have seen many who get what they don't deserve in life and many who don't get what they deserve in life.
What is your idea about it??? Do you think life has been fair with you till this moment? If no, can you give an example?
I have just come out of a series relationship with an older man. He loved me with all his heart and even proposed me. It was then I felt like I don't know What I truly feel about him. I loved him but about marrying I wasn't sure. I knew I had to stop before my family and dad to marry him and I wasn't sure how much It costs for me. We were perfect with eachother but I had one problem. And this happens with older guys all time. I was interested in some stuff because of my age that he wasn't. He looked more seriously in stuff and didn't get excited about things I would. Like I loved to just go to an amusement park!!!! While he felt It's boring and no fun. I had the best time with him and there's still chance we get back together.
My suggestion is giving chance to older ones. Age is not a very big deal.
I deleted all because I didn't want others to know and pity me. Thank you for listening to me. And I'm sorry If I judged you.
Hello everybody. I am new here joined yesterday. I will learn how this site works but I am not sure what is the purpose of it.
So I have some questions to see If this site is good and useful for me or not so I leave. I'll appreciate anyone who help me with this.
Have you found any good and real friends here?
Have you fellen in love with anyone here just by chatting?
Have you met someone from here outside and in reality and not just internet?
How do you describe the users?
Is there any kind of scams here that I should be aware of?
@Matt_Aranha I guess your answer to number 4 and 5 will be the most helpful ones I'll get. Thank you for your complete answers Matt😎! And the time you have clearly spent to write these complete answers
@mikeJB yes This is one of my favorite songs!
@mikeJB This is one of my favorites again😂 I remember listening to it for the first time last year and how excited I was about it!
@mikeJB I hadn't heard this one. Thanks for sharing
It depends on the girl. Personally I like tall guys. They give me the kind of protection feeling!!!
@mikeJB I have seen in news Iran is not in a good condition now from this terrible virus. I hope your friend is doing okay there.
So there are perverts here too. Do you know If they message just because I'm a female or like Tumblr they message If they see someone posts sexual things?
Please bear with me till end. I know i wrote a bit much.
I have a very very close friend who was my roommate for a very long period in collage and also uni. We have been best friends since high school so we are technically like sisters.
I have felt through all these years that she doesn't really care about me as much as I do for her. I am like a mother to her really. I have cared for her like she is a member of my own family.
But she...well let me start from this. Whenever she has a member of her family around, she totally forgets about me. She doesn't care if i am good, bad, stressed or anything. Whenever she goes to her home with her parents, she doesn't text me to even know if i am alive or not and when i tell her why you don't text me, she responds that you don't understand about being with family.
The other time I had an allergy shock and I couldn't even stand on my feet. She saw my state but didn't take it seriously and went out with her friends. When she got home i was feeling so bad and i needed a drug from pharmacy but she sat and started studying. I didn't ask her to go out and get it for me because I believe if she truly cared she would have done it without my request (like what i always do for her). I went out with so much pain praying to God to help me himself.
There are lots of examples like these but i pass and go to recent one.
We were talking about birthdays and stuff when i jokingly asked her about my date of birthday. I was smiling widely thinking she definitely knows of course. She has been in my birthdays for many years. But she said she doesn't remember and she knows EVERYONE's birthday from calendar. I got very upset and she realized that and instantly said a wrong number which made me angry more. I just told her i didn't expect this and she started hugging me and kissing my face, saying how much she loves me and she loves me like her family. She said again and again that she doesn't even know her mom's birthday date and stuff. She kept saying she loves me for like half and hour. At the end i just told her knowing birthday doesn't matter and just relax because i was hurt so badly and i couldn't bear her around me for a while.
The truth is that i care a lot about birthday because i believe if you really care , you will remember someone's birthday. I personally have a very weak memory and i struggle with that. But i remember a few of my friends' birthdays because it is Important in my opinion. I have memorised each of them with a code so i won't forget easily.
And... I wanna know your opinion about these matters. I feel very lonely when i care about people and they are like this in return. And now because i can't look at her the same way I used to, she keeps saying what is wrong and are you mad and I love you. I hate this part to be honest. I am also angry that she never even accepts her wrongs. She always brings excuses and at the end I am always the bad person in the story. If she had apologized, i would just pass from it easily. I would forget it in two days but now.....I just can't.
Do you think i am wrong or overreacting as she thinks??
What should i do really? I am not going to end my friendship with her and whenever my care for her decreases even a bit, she starts questioning me about it so i can't do that either (as it gets on my nerves eventually).
Clearly the girl doesn't enjoy his company anymore or she may be interested in another guy. Some girls may do this on the request of their boyfriend. The best thing a boy can do in this moment is asking her what's wrong. Sometimes the girl is mad at him but wants him to approach first and talk
In religious studies you see It says life is fair because God is fair and has justice. I believe that God has justice but I don't believe he uses that in this world.
I have seen many who get what they don't deserve in life and many who don't get what they deserve in life.
What is your idea about it??? Do you think life has been fair with you till this moment? If no, can you give an example?
Some time for myself
It depends on the girl. Personally I like tall guys. They give me the kind of protection feeling!!!
Tell him you're a lesbian!!!! Or interested in another guy.
Idk how to help. I just know It doesn't mean you have done sth wrong. Maybe It's just the wrong people were in ur life
I have just come out of a series relationship with an older man. He loved me with all his heart and even proposed me. It was then I felt like I don't know What I truly feel about him. I loved him but about marrying I wasn't sure. I knew I had to stop before my family and dad to marry him and I wasn't sure how much It costs for me. We were perfect with eachother but I had one problem. And this happens with older guys all time. I was interested in some stuff because of my age that he wasn't. He looked more seriously in stuff and didn't get excited about things I would. Like I loved to just go to an amusement park!!!! While he felt It's boring and no fun. I had the best time with him and there's still chance we get back together.
My suggestion is giving chance to older ones. Age is not a very big deal.
Nothing is more powerful than God. Closing religious places doesn't mean God is gone. God is in heart