@taarini I know I should have, I was upset to say the least, I just wanted him out.
I’d just bought a new skirt for our 2 year anniversary meal when he said he’d been seeing another guy!
To what extent does looks of a person influence your decision of dating them
-
@Lazz happened to me in only relationship i ever had. She was really pretty but she was not the kind of person i wanted to be with. Then i realized may be i confused infatuation with love
-
My attraction to a person is based on a kind of energy or vibe that I get from them (its probably actually just caused by pheromones). But yeah looks are not as important as the chemistry. Even somebody really good looking might have the wrong vibe for me. 🤷
-
@Witchslayer looks must be 50% presentable, but a good heart matters most and a fully loaded braincells lol..
Thank you, Next
-
@Witchslayer Looks is of course important because everyone has their own visual type and that's the first step. If a guy is hot but not a good person that will erase him being hot IMO. Now if I were to meet someone I wasn't at first attracted to but they were cool and we clicked I would date them. Although I have a visual "type" a great personality is most important to ME. 😊 😊 😊
-
@Gemini_Beta As seems to be your usual, very well said. Anticipating more of your shares
-
@Darla-Alphalfa can totally relate that
-
@Bela-Hella yeah meaningful convo happens when your parter is loaded with brains
-
@Witchslayer Getting attracted by looks is quite natural even the animals do that like the bees getting attracted to flowers due to the colorfful petals.To me looks definitely play a important role but it's secondary.The most important charecteristic of a person to whom i get attracted is that who is physically fit(not suffering from any chronic diseases)and is polite and has a little common sense.
-
@Witchslayer Love, lust, longing, infatuation, it can all get...muddled, mixed and murky. I've had a bit of each, and even a couple times equal portions of each in one person. THAT'S when things get dauntingly confusingly interesting :grin:
-
@Rajeev2021 healthy mind resides in healthy body. I am more of a fitness freak myself so yeah that is also something i desire to have in my partner
