People of TWS, we need to have a conversation.

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    @TalkWithStranger I was thinking what if we implement mute or temporary ban when a certain users disobey the rules, and they need to make an appeal in order for them to recover their account..Also we need to make a New welcome intro for every new users and attach the rules of the site..I really hope you consider this one, it might help.. also thanks to @sarah_the_magpie for opening this up.

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    @Akkii said in People of TWS, we need to have a conversation.:

    This place has a rating system and have got reputation marking for each if someone with good reputation marks Someone down that should ban them or it should lead towards that...

    People can already do that by flagging users. What you suggest would unfortunately be abused very easily by users who simply want to see other users they donโ€™t like gone. ๐Ÿ˜•

    saying this as the creeps might mark down good people as well to get back at them...the algorithm needs to change a bit...and moderators need to do their job more actively on topics to remove the bad ones....or just quit if you just want to show that moderator tag beside your name and just do nothing....appoint more moderators with good reputation and those who are active and willing to do that job.... @TalkWithStranger

    You might not be able to see it, but the active moderators here are constantly on the lookout for spammers, offensive content, creep posts, etc and responding to flags and inquiries of users in need. Idk what more you can want from us ๐Ÿ˜• Should we be deleting every single post of users looking for partners/nudes/sexting/etc? Weโ€™re already constantly moving those to the appropriate category which normal users can ignore as @Div showed.

    I donโ€™t think the issue here is to be fully blamed on the moderation if you donโ€™t mind me saying. Sure, an increase of mods will mean more help moving those topics and warding away creeps, but weโ€™ve been doing that since the creation of this website even when we had more mods. Thatโ€™s just like putting a bandaid on an bullet hole and hope it stops bleeding after a while.

    When it comes down to it, there are two main types of target audience to this place, peeps looking for hookups and peeps looking for interesting people to chat with. Thing is no matter what you do, the creeps will keep on coming. We should be figuring out how to improve the layout of this place so these two types of users can thrive without bothering one another.
    Problem is itโ€™s hard to separate the two and unless the whole design of the website changes idk how we could effectively keep them apart. Weโ€™re already moving those topics to separate categories but seems like thatโ€™s not enough..

    @sarah_the_magpie said in People of TWS, we need to have a conversation.:


    If you are being creeped out by anyone, there is a block button, and you never will have to talk to them again.

    tbh blocking solves nothing. back in october, i was harassed by a user who wrote insulting replies to my every comment for at least a week. i blocked him, but it didn't stop him from writing the replies. i flagged him and i was told by a mod that he was allowed to do it, and i was a jerk for flagging him.
    so no, blocking doesn't work.

    @TalkWithStranger should look into fixing that feature ๐Ÿ˜•

    thanks for replying tho. you and @div are the only global mods who cared enough to respond. even if my tone is negative, i do appreciate it.
    i guess the other mods don't feel like these issues are a problem, which makes it easier to tell whose side they are on.

    Quick reminder that itโ€™s not because some mods didnโ€™t reply to this topic that there arenโ€™t doing anything and actively looking for solutions. ๐Ÿ˜…

  • @m-y-s-t-e-r-y you are so cute, little fuckface. Super cute

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    @sarah_the_magpie I wanted to add that I think that it is nice that you are making an effort to keep the dream team together. You were one of my friends too and It's awesome that you've taken it upon yourself to make this place better ๐Ÿ˜Š You were always so kind and smart and nice towards me. Go Sarah go go! ๐Ÿ˜

  • Chocolate Lovers ;)

    1 . They can keep like strikes in baseball , like if a person is reported more than 3 times , he gets removed
    2 . Can keep a photo verification to avoid catfishing
    3. Moderators should be able to not receive texts from unknown people
    4. This site is basically running because of the regular users , so we can all join together to idk threaten the tws admin that we will leave. ๐Ÿ˜…
    That's all I have as of now

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    @Desian If you don't follow a user they can't message you. 331b51e9-a4fd-47a4-85e7-c301fd20626b-image.png

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    @sarah_the_magpie said in People of TWS, we need to have a conversation.:

    today, three upstanding members of the tws community decided to leave. as a community, we should introspect on the reasons. there is something wrong here.

    i feel like a decision has to be made by the @Global-Moderators & @TalkWithStranger concerning the nature of is this site going to remain a cool little meeting place for people to make new friends and engage in lovely banter, or is it going to become a trashy sexting site with nasty ads and perverts lurking around every corner?

    i have issues with the way this site is moderated, i really do. i honestly do. i know of four individual people who've left this site because they couldn't handle the amount of creeps on this site.

    If you are being creeped out by anyone, there is a block button, and you never will have to talk to them again.

    they have all left by now, while all the pervs are still here. what is the priority here? getting all these little messed-up creeps and catfishes to use this site in order to maximize that sweet sweet ad revenue?

    Catfishes arenโ€™t our problem, unless they are asking for pictures or money. There is also a flag button that you can use to give us a notification about someone.

    @Global-Moderators, please tell me whose side are you on, because at this point i'm not even sure anymore.

    i think that the priority should be making this place a safe & fun environment. no more harassment, no more toxicity. of course, we all need to check our behavior. i'll be the first one to admit that i haven't always been the most welcoming & friendliest person on this site. i will try to be kinder in the future, and provoke less drama.

    in my opinion, we need more moderation. this place needs a major cleanup. we need stricter rules of conduct and they need to be actually enforced, not simply treated as suggestions as they currently are.

    What do you suggest?

    seriously, no one in their right mind is going to want to join this site if they see 1000X topics like "i'm bored & horny" in a row. let's stop this madness.

    @Div did post a solution for this.

    i love this place. i love the community here, and i love everyone who makes an effort to keep this place alive. you are all wonderful people. but we can't continue like this. today's events proved it.

    i would like to hear suggestions from everyone here. how could we make this place better & more welcoming? please people, let's brainstorm and make something positive happen. let's not give up on trying to turn tws into a better place.

  • @sarah_the_magpie said in People of TWS, we need to have a conversation.:

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    have you enabled this setting?

    this should be the default. i think it is the default. is it?

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    first of all, stop yelling. using caps lock won't make your arguments any better.

    There is no introspection, something wrong nor reasons why they have to go.

    three active users leaving at the same time for the same reasons isn't a reason to be concerned about? ok


    is it wrong to assume that the owner of this site should have a personal interest in making sure that this site is clean & runs successfully? yes, it is their responsibility to make it happen.

    OK screw with your idealistic, powerful encourage, young life or even your "empowering" words you have. FUCK THAT, FUCK!

    cute. are you 12 years old? saying the word "fuck" doesn't make you look cool. grow up pls

    AGAIN, IT IS Global-Moderators FAULT? Woa, girl. Use filters, you can manage your account. If y

    yes, it is. it's their job to make sure this site is moderated. that's what the word "moderator" means. why do i have to explain all these simple concepts to you? do you even know how the internet works?

    FUCK THAT. IF YOU LOVE THIS PLACE, then why do you keep blaming Global-Moderators? It means you hate this place.

    really? is that so? so... wanting things to change for the better equals hating this place. interesting logic there, buddy.


    how very contributive and mature of you. thank you for publicly showing this incredibly irrational & mean side of you for everyone to see.

    so... hmm, let's see. i rate this lil rant a soft 4 out of 10. weak arguments and you used way too much caps lock, but it was definitely amusing at times. try again, maybe you'll score higher next time ๐Ÿ˜‰

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    I think it is all of their freedom to stay or leave, so why i have to concern that much?

    it's fine if you don't care about this site. i do, but you're welcome not to.

    Keeping clean and run successfully are not the things that they should do.

    keeping this site clean isn't the responsibility of the moderators? sigh
    nibby, i have no desire to explain to you over and over again what the word "moderator" means. please google it.

    right now, i am asking you, is there any platform IN THIS WORLD, without any payments like TWS? Show me.

    ever heard of a site called reddit? or a site called tumblr? or a site called omegle?


    that doesn't mean that they cannot be criticised. it is a voluntary position, they chose to accept it. no one is forcing them to do it.

    Hmm. I think now i am smarter than you ๐Ÿ™‚ like thanks for saying i am cute.

    you aren't particularly cute as a human being. not really a word i'd use to describe you or any qualities you might have. creepy and sort-of delusional, maybe. definitely not cute tho.

    you know what? i have no desire to continue this little stupid battle any further. i'm willing to, but i'd be doing it only out of malice. i didn't join this site to argue with people like you, i came here to make new friends. this is all just so incredibly stupid. this site and all of this toxicity is legit giving me a headache. like i try to inspire people to find new ways to make this site even better and then assholes like you just have to appear and spew your hate everywhere. just log off and run as far away as possible from your computer, you autistic piece of shit. go and stalk alliley or whatever that fake girlfriend of yours was called, you fucking creep

    also, people of tws, consider this my resignation. bye. i've fucking had it with this place. i'm never coming back here again.

  • @Nibba_Nibby All I will say now is your reply back to them just shows the immaturity level you are at. If you remain in this disposition when you are an adult, Life is going to wear you down quickly. But I guess this is the youth of society today. Disrespectful, Shallow minded, Showing no signs of improvement or trying to be a decent human being. It is pretty inconceivable you would think seeing as the younger generations are our future. It is sad yet a bit pathetic as well. The human race is fucked.

  • @pe7erpark3r said in People of TWS, we need to have a conversation.:

    Here is a suggestion:

    When you post a topic the default category is "Discuss Anything". Thus horny topics go into "Discuss anything". However the default should be "Horny shit" or whatever it is called. And I have muted "Horny shit" which is one of TWS's featurs. Which should also be the default ๐Ÿ˜

    Moderation should just make sure that the horny topics go into the horny category. That'd be enough IMHO.

    Exactly, a default category would be great!

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    @Div I have heard that anyone can dm moderators . So few people take advantage of that ig , so good mods like jess is leaving the site .. it would be better if moderator also has the option of whom she can chat with . Or maybe only users using tws for longer period can text mods (longer periods meaning 3 months or more something like that)just a suggestion . I haven't been a mod . So I don't know how it works . It is all based on what I heard from other people
    Ps:- if there is any grammatical error.. it may be because iam a little high .. iam sorry for that in advance .

  • i tell mods to do their job and all i do is get mocked, cussed, or ostracized. know what? dont care anymore. run it into the ground. ill sit back and watch

  • @m-y-s-t-e-r-y So a circle jerk of white men? Sounds hot.

  • @Gemini_Beta said in People of TWS, we need to have a conversation.:

    @m-y-s-t-e-r-y So a circle jerk of white men? Sounds hot.

    that's how every great civilization or corporation started

  • @sarah_the_magpie I'm leaving too i don't come here very often anymore and soon i will stop coming very often too

  • @Thales_BG said in People of TWS, we need to have a conversation.:

    @m-y-s-t-e-r-y you are so cute, little fuckface. Super cute

    Thanks dude, you've gotta fuckable face too.

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    @Desian lol i asked for the name so that other girls can be cautious of that person too....i don't have nothing to worry as fortunately or unfortunately only girls have to face these creeps....

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