Five Languages of Love (Chapman's Theory)

[cjko]

Are you familiar with the five languages of love by Chapman ? it's pretty amazing.. so, I'll be posting them here.

1.Words of Affirmation: Expressing affection through spoken affection, praise, or appreciation. Except ofcourse saying I love you if you want to exclude it here.

2.Acts of Service: Actions, rather than words, are used to show and receive love.

3.Receiving Gifts: Gifting is symbolic of love and affection.

4.Quality Time: Expressing affection with undivided, undistracted attention.

5.Physical Touch: It can be intimate activity or holding hands. With this love language, the speaker feels affection through physical touch.

You can relate to a few of these . Maybe you relate to all of them. But most of us have one or two that are much more important to us than the others, and it’s different for everyone.It’s obvious that we all show affection in different ways. These “languages” simply label those ways so you can understand people a little better.

If you ask me which language I can relate with, it's a mixed of 2,4 and 3. Although , I don't care much in receiving something , I express it through gifting.

How about you ?

[Wolfie_11]

@cjko
Damn. You're quite knowledgeable in the subject of love.
Now going by my personality of being a man of few words and a principle of "Not Accepting Gifts", I think I can relate the most to the Acts Of Service and Quality Time. I think Physical Touch is a complimentary act to the points 2 & 4.

[cjko]

@Wolfie_11 haha nah. I just learned something .. I'm still fool in love.

[cjko]

@DIV hmm I can relate with that. I can't express much through words

[Wolfie_11]

@cjko said in Five Languages of Love (Chapman's Theory):

@Wolfie_11 I'm still fool in love.

That shows.
Just kidding.

[Lurker]

@cjko

I am an addept of all 5 of those, but people often overlook the "gifting" one. It doesnt have to be expensive, like a perfume, flowers, chocolate, a piece of clothes, jewelry, etc... When I used to live with one of my exs, I'd write small cute notes, and would leave them scattered around the house, where I know she'd find them so she would start her day with a smile on her face

[cjko]

@Wolfie_11 haha wow. That stings!

[cjko]

@Lurker yeah you are right about the gifts.. it's always the thought that counts. That thing you did with your ex was sooo cute