@BrazillianGuy I'm too
Would you let your best friend date your EX?
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@Saloniii ofc it's your business too.. since they both have special places in your heart
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@cjko
Lol bruh.
Why so much hate against those innocent exes? -
@Kana hmm if that's your decision, that;s ok.
but will you let your best friend eat the food you already threw away? -
@cjko if my best friend is gone date with my EX then . it shows that she won't care abt me so i won't think that is my business
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@Alte haha totally agree with this
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@Wolfie_11 because there's a lot of fishes in the sea... why hook "best friend"
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@Saloniii she's not worthy to be called your best friend then
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@cjko yep if she do so then she is not :joy:
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@Saloniii I see. so, you wouldn't let this situation happen
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@cjko nope not at all if this gonna happen then she has to choose me or my EX
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@Saloniii hmm yeah, the best way to do (imo)
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@cjko
Why not?
Just think that why do we fall in love with our 'ex' in the first place?
Because we are attracted either to them or their qualities and then our likes and dislikes matches and a bond is formed.
Now, to think that you broke up with them bcoz of their fault may not always be right.
So unless they're a sureshot dichead, our bestie deserves a chance with them if they're feeling the bond.
Stopping them by blackmailing 'em for our friendship isn't wise.
They've the right to make their choice, nah? -
@Wolfie_11 have you heard your self? It sounds like you belong to those labeled persons.
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@cjko
Seriously? What made you think so?
Are we all not entitled to a chance?
We're prone to judgements and sometimes they do turn out to be wrong.
There are various reasons why we break up with our ex.. and unless its something not related to cheating/treachery, I see no bad in letting my best friend to go through with their relationship. -
@Wolfie_11 yeah , you are entitled to that opinion. We have different perspective too and that for me is not ok.
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@Wolfie_11 will you not feel "betrayed" after all?
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but will you let your best friend eat the food you already threw away?
That is a disrespectful way of referring to your ex which they deserve only if they have actually been bad in their relationship with you. Not everyone can be compatible with everyone. Even if it didn't work out with you, there is no reason for you to let that affect future possibilities.
The real question here is, have you moved on from your past relationship enough to let your bestie find happiness with your ex? -
@Kana haha assuming s/he cheated on you lol
yes to your question. -
@cjko
Not if its a mutual decision to separate from my ex.
And otherwise, it might be awkward at first.. No denying that. But with time, it will become alright (for me). -
@Wolfie_11 well it is up to you.. so, you will let this situation happen, that's your answer. No further discussion for that