Does love happen just once in a lifetime ?

[Adyyan]

Sometimes we meet someone and get on very well with them immediately. We click. Sometimes we have an instant attraction to someone. Sometimes many interests in common, similar sense of humour or find the same things annoying. Some relationships are intense, some comforting. There are many things that appeal to us about someone we fall in love with and appeal to different aspects of our personality. we don't feel same exact emotions for everyone !! And i'm leaving it puzzled for you guys !!!!

[Quatre]

@Adyyan It’s definitely possible for love to happen more than once in a lifetime. It may have not worked out in the end very well, causing you to find someone else, but it’s possible for love to happen more than once.

[Lurker]

@Adyyan

When I was younger I tended to think there is JUST a loved one, that we need to wait and SAVE ourselves for the one... But guess what? That is indeed a pretty thought but it's not always the way it goes... If love happened only once how would so many ppl divorce and marry again? How would some men/women have more then a marriege in their lifetime? Simple... The human can love for then once if they are ready to let go of the past and move on from it.
The 1st love is always special and leaves a very special taste in your mouth... (NO PUN INTENDED :joy:), some people might experience they have a hard time loving again a new person (I can relate to that...), but at the end of the day most of us don't wanna be lonely, end up/die alone, they wanna find someone to share their lives with and that's why they are open and receptive about it.
Just cuz love doesn't go your way once, doesn't mean it will never will, love is that special it will come and go and it will always be new! :D

[A Former User]

@Adyyan I dont think so. I thought I wouldnt find someone like her again. But guess what I found some one better. So I loved again. Its all relative. If you meet a better person yes you can love again. Its all about what feels right for you.

[Lurker]

@Katherinee said in Does love happen just once in a lifetime ?:

@Lurker That is loonggggg

That's what she said :smirk:

[pe7erpark3r]

It depends on what you mean by love.

The nice feeling of butterflies in your belly? For me that was more in my teens.
The feeling of being really attracted to someone? That happens a lot, if you only go out there.
Clicking with somebody and realizing you really have chemistry? Once again if you are only out there, that tends to happen every now and then.
Developing a real crush on somebody, that does not want to go away for quite some time? The younger the more I assume.
Falling in love deeply? For this you have to overcome a lot of barriers, you have to learn to trust each other.
Marrying? Obviously happens way too often for some ;-)

Well I think marriage is work. People don't realize, but that is what it is. It is like building a home. And it is the home of your kids, forever – unless you break it. Even if they move out, you'll still always be the rock in the temptoous sea of their life.

I do believe that truly giving yourself to another person requires a certain maturity. And it can only ever be a two-way lane. Can it happen more than once? I do think so. But in the purest of ways I believe it can only happen once: If you really give away yourself to the other person, you are given. You cannot just take it back. Which does not mean you cannot leave them, but you cannot give yourself again in the same way. But I don't believe that every marriage fulfills this, only some do.

[Quatre]

@pe7erpark3r That’s an amazing answer tbh

[pe7erpark3r]

@Katherinee Thank you, that's very kind. Btw, what does tbh mean?

[Quatre]

@pe7erpark3r It means “to be honest” lol

[pe7erpark3r]

@Katherinee thanks again now I finally know that one. :joy: I'll catch'em all, just you wait and see! :sweat_smile:

[A Former User]

@Adyyan tell me about love first :smirk: if you cant explain, i aint explain you.

[Quatre]

@Lurker That is loonggggg

[Quatre]

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[Quatre]

@pe7erpark3r Hahahahaha 👏

[Firefly]

@Katherinee AGREED 200%:ok_hand: :joy: :joy: :joy: :joy: :joy: :joy: :joy: :joy:

[Quatre]

@Firefly Oh hush 🤣