@someone216 yeah i get it, i understand how hard it is to break up and how bad you would feel, but please, make no mistake, first time that you feel like somebody else might be better person for you, thats the signal you should always take, no exceptions. And i will repeat myself sorry, but, if you break up now it will be a lot easier than looking back to this moment 2 years from now and wandering what life would be like if you had broken up while it was not too late. Trust me, i myself had a relationship that i didnt want to end because of feeling the grief, but you are doing him more damage by staying with him while you dont really, truly want that, than to leave him straight. I know its hard, but its for the best. Thats my advice, hope you get your feelings sorted out.
Is Flirting Considered Cheating, Why?
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If i do it its fine, but if my wife does it she is a sl ut
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It depends on what one consider as flirting. I have seen some guys getting all riled up and jealous when he see "his girl" talking freely and openly with her close friends. He then declare diktats such as "thou shalt not talk to that guy from hence forth" and so on, like he owns her or something. Being in love doesnt mean you have to burn your bridges. Such a relationship is toxic and doesnt really worth it.
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It really depends on where do you draw the line of what flirting really is.
Different people are more or less understanding towards where the line is drawn so you have to adapt / change to make things more confortable for each other. I also believe we should avoid doing stuff that impacts a relationship negatively so even if both of you don't consider "X" and "Y" flirting/cheating it might still annoy them/make em jealous and that's not good and thus avoided.
As the extremelly jealous guy I am, I've lost my shit many times before when I knew/seen "my girl" flirt and I've been involved on the other side of the coin as well and usually ppl dismiss the problem with a "it means nothing is harmless" answer and as much it might be that way for them, we always have to think about what our partner thinks and feels... (I'm sorry again ._. The person whom i'm apologizing to knows :sweat_smile:)@regular-anthony said in Is Flirting Considered Cheating, Why?:
@AlizaJalebiiiiii Well you know ️ Shit happens ...
Is this a kind of "oops I accidentally fell with my d.ick into her kitty while she had her pants down" thing? :joy:
@AlizaJalebiiiiii said in Is Flirting Considered Cheating, Why?:
@Zen00 I love your loyalty, he’s a lucky guy
OOF, who's the lucky guy @Zen00 :smirk: :smirk:
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@AlizaJalebiiiiii flirting is a crime
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@AlizaJalebiiiiii Flirting is cheating cos if u r in love u wouldn't want to flirt with another person..
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@OctoPussy YOU.. saying THIS? 😂😂😂
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@AlizaJalebiiiiii I don't think flirting is really cheating unless you flirt with the intention of perusing a relationship with that person, sometimes it can be just a fun little joke to flirt with people
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@LionCara I agree. I wouldn't call cuddling and kissing flirting at all though.
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@AlizaJalebiiiiii "Is flirting while in a relationship cheating?"
Replace "relationship" with "marriage", and know the difference.
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@Kakashi So you don’t think that loyalty in relationships matter?
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@AlizaJalebiiiiii read that again.
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@Kakashi I dunno I don’t get u ._.
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I think a little flirt here or there is spicing up our lives. We want to feel attractive and flirting lets us do so. Also it is a nice way of giving the other person the same feeling. In a way it's like wearing makeup, because there are two reasons to wear "normal" makeup: to be more attractive or to please group/society pressure. I am not against women (or men if they desire to do so) wearing makeup to feel more attractive.
However it very much depends on what you mean by flirting. As I said earlier I would certainly not call cuddling and kissing flirting. Explicit $e xual language I wouldn't call flirting either.
Flirting for me is more innocent stuff like telling a girl "you look like trouble", necking, some niceties. I mean we are – wether we know it or not – attracted to some people and have a chemistry with them. And it's good that that is so, as long as it does not go over the line. Flirting also makes you attractive. If somebody flirts (not crossing the line) with your partner you can either get jealous or you could take it as a compliment – because it means others find your partner attractive.
I guess it's all about where to draw the line in the end. And that both of you agree. I think if you – by nature – view the line too different from your partner you probably are not meant for each other. I also believe that if the line is drawn to narrow, that's not good for either of you. The same probably goes for too wide.
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@pe7erpark3r Hmm very very good point!
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@AlizaJalebiiiiii hahaha..im not flirting..
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@AlizaJalebiiiiii no not at all. Flirting is a pious thing. Dont call it cheating
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In my opinion I think it is if your in a relationship because your only supposed to have eyes on that one person and respect them by not flirting with other people.
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@AlizaJalebiiiiii Well...maybe yes..but it depends on ur partner's will...n if they're possessive or not.If u flirt they could flirt too..U ok with that? :wink:
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I never flirt......i just try to act cool and funny.
PS - Nice to see an original topic. Good work.
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@sup I just act so cool and funny..well lets see if your act of being funny works on my topic.. 😛