Do you Love your Reality?



  • And why or why not?



  • @zen00 Some people can have everything and have nothing at the same time. It all matters on how the person views the world. A fundamentally pessimistic person will see every turn in life as negative. "Oh fuck, I'm not dead. Too bad." "The world is shit because I don't have Cheetos."
    It is easier to roll with the negativity because you won't have to work at life as you would if you try seeing things positively.
    "My life sucks, and it will always be that way. I tried a life for a second and nothing went my way. The world sucks because it doesn't bend my way at first try."
    There are many ways to work at your life and giving up is not one of them.
    There are those who actually enjoy feeling sorry for themselves, too, they want to play the victim and bask in pity.



  • @darkice You can be a planet where evolution and change happens or space around the worlds where the dark emptiness expands. I can see you've made up your mind, though, which is sad. Pessimism is such a creative block.



  • @ansi That may be an excellent way to keep yourself going, and in a lot of ways it is in human nature to compete to climb the ladder faster than others, but reaching for the impossible is our downfall. Everyone will be better at something.



  • @kanuna I don't see why someone on here wouldn't like their reality. If they're seeing this they clearly have wifi, some kind of technology device, and they're obviously alive. I think people watch movies or tv shows and stuff and expect too much. Humans are too greedy. If you can't love and appreciate the things you already have , how can someone ever expect to be happy? I love my reality because I woke up this morning. I'm not dead, I'm not suffering from any diseases, I can see, I can hear, and that's enough for me. To me, that's what a reality worth loving looks like.


  • The BatSheep

    @zen00 said in Do you Love your Reality?:

    @kanuna I don't see why someone on here wouldn't like their reality. If they're seeing this they clearly have wifi, some kind of technology device, and they're obviously alive. I think people watch movies or tv shows and stuff and expect too much. Humans are too greedy. If you can't love and appreciate the things you already have , how can someone ever expect to be happy? I love my reality because I woke up this morning. I'm not dead, I'm not suffering from any diseases, I can see, I can hear, and that's enough for me. To me, that's what a reality worth loving looks like.

    I like your answer to this ... but some of your points are exactly why I don't like mine... at best I tolerate it because I have kids and despite what I have done in my life (good or bad) I would never let them think of me as to weak to continue in this life... so tolerance is all I have... and a little bit of tech.



  • Don't know....Confused 😕 .Reality was never what I wanted it to be.I never liked it...



  • @darkice That is your perception of life, your reality. Mold it the way you want to see it.



  • @darkice i feel that so much. i do everything i can to stay out of reality



  • @kanuna I love your outlook on life so much. You have such a beautiful soul!


  • The BatSheep

    @kanuna Can't really explain it, but if yo were to walk in my shoes I a sure you would understand.



  • @kanuna I love what I am. I see people lower than me which motivates me to work hard and keep myself up and When I see some people higher, than I make myself to work hard and get higher than them.. Hardwork is the only thing which never goes unrewarded... 🙂



  • @kanuna Tried n failed 😢 Life sucks


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    @kanuna

    Life or "reality" is unsteady and made of ups and downs. I don't think I've ever met someone that lived their whole life satisfied or "happy" with their reality. Mby i'm too negative or ambitious, but I feel like I'm rarely satisfied with how things stand for me, I often find myself not satisfied and striving for more, which often leads to some down times, so I think the best option is "teetering"!



  • Reality blows butt



  • @kanuna Reality and I are in a weird relationship, I love her no matter what, yet she hates me most of the times



  • @kanuna That is something I've never been able to understand. How is negativity the easy way? In my opinion, if I felt like life wasn't going my way and that everything sucked, it would be hard to live. Dealing with that feeling of hopelessness sounds hard to me. I would think being optimistic is easier, the good clearly out weighs the bad (in numbers) so it is a lot easier to find thing to be happy about. I feel like being happy is a lot easier to deal with.


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    @kanuna said in Do you Love your Reality?:

    It is easier to roll with the negativity because you won't have to work at life as you would if you try seeing things positively.

    Depends on the way you look at life as a negative person. A negative person might seem like he takes the easy way, but what if all his efforts and strenght goes towards "surviving" rather then trying to fix himself? I would say that "surviving" takes a tool on ppl and that is ALOT HARDER then to just "live".



  • @mr-h
    What is life but surviving? It may take the edge off of "surviving" if someone changes their view of the world. Someone who is fundamentally optimistic is significantly happier and less stressed than another who is pessimistic. Surviving life is no excuse not to fix yourself. We all struggle with something.


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    @kanuna

    I get what you are saying and I'm not excusing overly negative people. I'm just giving another POV to this "debate". I don't think "living" and "surviving" is the same thing. Living is positive, cheerful, light and wonderful. Even tho some obstacles might show up in your path you can overcome them without following back to the "surviving" counterpart. Surviving, on the other hand, is a state of mind that some of us have when you are lower then the gutter. Instead of fighting to get up those ppl fight to not keep getting deeper and that constant fight drains the possible energy they might have to make their way out.

    I know that life is about surviving but my differentiation was intended to not be followed to the complete nature of the word, more like a figurative expression, if it makes any sense. 🙃






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