Give me dating advice pls



  • When you put your best effort to fix your relationship (i mean like apologizing) but your bf/gf emotionally push u away by saying rude and bad words just bcoz u did a lil mistake and it hurt you so bad, and u feel u dont deserve it. Would u leave or stay after they are sorry?? I need your help. Tysm



  • Male aggressivity manifested against his partner is likely caused by him wanting to break up while feeling trapped. Most males have problems expressing strong emotions. In some, this translates into aggressive behavior.
    Probably your best option is to subtly give him more and more space. In the meantime, detach yourself slowly. Normally, he will realize that he wants you near, he might even feel anxiety and even mild depression. He will suddenly become affectionate. That's the moment you will be as cold as ice.
    Unfortunately, It happened to me and I've seen it happen to other men.
    My answer is based on my personal experience and that of others around me. It might not apply to your case.



  • @martin_eden thanks for your advice. Maybe all we need is break time that honestly very hard to me,but i will do my best to fix it. If all doesn't work, i will surrender and walk away.


  • Soul Searchers

    @chicken-nugget Hoping you have some brains, since you have no f-ing chance of meeting your princess on this planet by random events, looking around, hanging out at bars, or thinking one will fall from the sky. It’s just not probable based on cumulative yield. Any algorithm for online dating services is just that, to make you feel good that you are finding your perfect match…duh, stupid humans.



  • @chicken-nugget
    As a general rule, men feel great immediately after they "get away from that torturing relation". We feel, energetic, we might enjoy small things like a cup of tea served at a serene terrace in a park, thinking about all the great things we are about to achieve, We are motivated to do positive stuff. Then, the brain regulates the release of some neurotransmitters and lowers the density of some receptors, resulting in states of nostalgia and even mild depression. From this point of view, men are far more vulnerable than women. Most women are used to openly express negative emotions.
    A week or two after the end of that "torture", many men become flooded with all the great moments spent with that girl. And so it begins. Now suffer! And lock them inside you. Depression, loneliness, regret. Like a prison for negative feelings.
    Yes, I saw it happen with some men. It also happened to me.
    So, after a break up many men seem happier while many women seem to express sadness and other negative feelings
    Fast Forward 4 weeks or even less and most probably the man will have already started to slowly sink in the sands of regret and of loneliness, although his face does not give away, the usual.
    The women, on the other hand, are already starting to put everything behind.



  • @chicken-nugget maybe u did unforgivable mistake



  • @martin_eden yes i agree with you. Man become agressive when they feel trapped.


  • Soul Searchers

    @chicken-nugget depends on what r mistake was



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  • leave.. he will realize that later 🙂



  • @lonelygirl2 add me back Im in need of friends



  • @martin_eden I agree with this.





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