Rebelling girlfriend's family

[mrmatt88]

Hey I went on this interracial date tour and I met this woman I really like. But now my problem is that recently we were travelling and she brought up how her parents were really dedicated to their culture and religion. Which was fine except for the fact that I go against what they want for her. What do I do? Should I follow her parents wishes? Or should I just rely on her decision? I don’t want to get in the way though.

[miracle7]

@mrmatt88 I think you should talk to her about it and have her make her own decision. It’s her life, she doesn’t need to abide by her families traditions the rest of her life. Just run your thoughts by her.

[mrmatt88]

@miracle7 Well! I think i should talk to her personally so that i can tell her everything about the situation..

[miracle7]

@mrmatt88 agreed definitely

[mrmatt88]

@miracle7 thank you for giving your good advice about my personal problem.

[miracle7]

@mrmatt88 no doubt

[XkeziahX25]

@mrmatt88 Ohhhh kinda big issue. You should really talk about this dude. Like seriously.

[kittypie]

Talk to her and listen to what she says. Have her make a decision on her own and you should respect and follow her decisions.

[inseekayumi31]

@mrmatt88 said in Rebelling girlfriend's family:

Hey I went on this interracial date tour and I met this woman I really like. But now my problem is that recently we were travelling and she brought up how her parents were really dedicated to their culture and religion. Which was fine except for the fact that I go against what they want for her. What do I do? Should I follow her parents wishes? Or should I just rely on her decision? I don’t want to get in the way though.

Oh so you really did try a date tour. What made you do it? Buy anyways, yeah, I agree with @miracle7. For me, this is such a serious matter if you plan on marrying her.

[hurleyking]

@mrmatt88 it's okay to follow their culture and religion as long as your girlfriend is okay with it. But if it's something that harm your girlfriend I think it's time for you to step in and let your girlfriend decide.