• @rendezvous yes, I know just how competitive you are lol. Being competitive is always a good thing, that means you always try to be the best. But relaxing is important too. And appreciating life and little things. Breathe.


  • @naveen067 this is the one most important thing a person have to learn in life. I'm glad you finally realized this 🤗
    Believe


  • @isabella every one goes through a low point in life. Surround yourself with people who loves you, understands you and supports you. No matter how bitchy you get lol. You can do everything as long as there's just even one person who is there for you whenever things get dark (or darker). You can also talk to me if you want and we can bitch together lol 🤗


  • @trose18 I hope you can go back to being a lion
    Roar



  • @kimmy159 you is awesome!
    You


  • @us-poet that sounds awful :( I'm still quite new to this "adulting" and I'll take what you went through as a lesson. Hope you're doing great now, poet!


  • @evan-elderson I was a very shy and quiet as a kid and teen as well. I think I still kinda am until now. I hated standing out. I grew more confident and comfortable around new people after I started working.
    Certain situations does push a person to be better. I hope I can completely come out of my shell like you did.
    Thumbs up


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  • I’m still the shyest and lonelinest at my school so I see no difference....and the fact I’m still trying to keep everyone happy


  • @zazzles yeah I have a terrific job now, and I forgot who I was for years, and now that I'm remembering a lot of things are changing in my life.

  • Freedom Writers

    @evan-elderson why yes, yes I am.


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  • @zazzles
    I was a very lazy, unactive, obese, unsocial, boring, lifeless creature who once had days where i just get up, attend classes, eat, study, sleep. Like how bots are restricted. That's it.. i remember how i didn't talk to anyone and was in a false illusion of me being someone higher than my collegues. I started thinking of myself as a genius( thats when closed all doors for learning)
    Later this wrong pattern affected me.
    .
    Slowly
    I decided to do everything that makes me uncomfortable. Talking to new people or beating that habit of procrastinating things.
    Now,
    I'm open to learning new things, its okay if i look silly( earlier i had this bad habit of wanting to look perfect always )
    Its okay if that new person i just spoke to is being unkind and rude to me!
    In the end everything's alright. Just stay calm and let life flow!


  • @evan-elderson Yes I am! My second name was actually after my horoscope


  • @zazzles me too ,Aries & Proud . :hugging_face: :hugging_face:

    My past huh ...I remember being the shyest ,quietest person anyone could ever meet.
    I would rather go hungry or thirsty rather than speaking out .

    One time ,I remember taking a cold shower at 2 A.M. at night in December & standing out in the windy balcony just so I could have a fever & get out of public speaking.

    I was the perfect obedient student ,the intelligent guy of the room ...but one who doesnt speak out.Rather prove it on paper.
    Teachers loved me,I was famous among relatives...But I was never really happy.

    I was also really serious ,so although I had real good relations with every group ..I was not really anyone's bosom friend..

    Later
    Certain things happened ,expectations got dropped ... i got into a sink or swim situation.
    It was the best & worst thing to happen to me.

    I matured & took hold of my life.
    I had no-one else looking over my life , controlling what i did ...I was free ,free to decide my own future..

    Now I'm the one people ask to talk on stage & I accept(provided I've practiced a few times ,i hate doing anything without thinking things through & without a plan).
    I'm working on my own projects, my own dreams.
    I've a few really good friends.
    I'm quite happy.

    I've quite the many plans for my future ..including being an author ,game creator ,youtube vlogger ,stock market investor ,a few business plans...

    I have so many ideas ,so why keep them in my head ? ...lets release them in the market ,get famous & get more money to further my other goals in life...

    ..a job that will instantly elevate me among "the country's most eligible bachelors" (I'm really serious ,that's what it was called ..the power ,prestige ..if you can work through it ,build connections ..you will never have any problems..Hell you can even build your own dynasty.)

    All of them have their own time ,they have to be done sequentially ..but I have the roadmap to my action plan.

    & I wont stop ,I will let nothing distract me... I will achieve my dreams.

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