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Looks over Personality?
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@s_dawn Alright, so here’s the thing. When you walk out of your house, you should always make a good appearance and go. But, your personality is also very, very important. No one wants to talk to a very boring or sad person, but if you don’t wear the best clothes, they can also have a bad impression. Therefore, they both are important. I would say 60-40%. 60% personality is important, and then 40% looks/clothing is important.
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@kat_15 i kinda agree but at the same time i dont like i think you should look nice but i dont think you should have to be dressy cuz thats not my style im more of a hipster tumblr type so im not into being dressy
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@s_dawn Yeah that’s true
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@kat_15 that's true! For me I'd say more like 70%-30%. 70% personality and 30% looks.
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@boots22 Ye
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@s_dawn why? You seriously should just be your own person. I got the label of redneck or southerner, but do I take it? Nah Definetly not.
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I've had a similar problem in principle, Going to school in the past I would look like a extreme conservative and was beyond uptight. Now of days I in some ways look like a trans and during those time periods I dealt with 'judge a book by it's cover' on a daily basis. I do look for looks (looks at himself in the mirror with disgust due too such a bad play on words) but personality is always a must. In my opinion I would think to have a mixture of both as personality does effect your looks and vice-versa. Sorry if this sounded like a roundabout answer to your question.
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@boots22 i am my own person i dont base my life on what others are calling me
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@s_dawn Mkay good.
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@boots22 lol dont worry Boots ik who i am and nobody is changin that
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@s_dawn i might say personality over looks but lets talk real. One glance when your eyes meet with someone and you start a conversation with gesture of your eyes and then you decide to be overwhelmed,its totally looks and you can't fight with it. I have seen if if i see ugliness behind a beautiful face, that person loose all respect. So its looks sometimes and sometimes personality and sometimes both with an equal contribution
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@s_dawn good. 😊
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I must say that I agree with what was said above but I want to propose a different point of view on the matter.
I am only interested in the personality of people. But I use my own look as a tool. Not to be appealing, but the exact opposite. So that only those who share my opinions come to see me.
Don't get me wrong I dress properly or not to badly. But everything I wear is about "don't care about me".
I never care about how someone is dressed except when I think that it conveys a message.
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Tangent ~ I don't get the expression of 'problem with society', I've in most situation have been more concerned with the individual and having to change oneself then to attribute the problem towards society.
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hmmm yeah, most people dont go any deeper than how you looks, to be simple stay away from those
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Both simultaneously.
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@s_dawn looks depends upon the person how he or she think about u... And personality is the way of u r attitude baby
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Personality and looks change over time. Personality is usually more consistent. Looks play a big part in attraction.
In the case of this idiot guy, he has a bad personality by putting judgement on looks based off of incorrect stereotypes. Were YOU attracted to him before you realized what a jerk he was?
Main point: looks are not always as important as personality.
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@s_dawn For me both are important but personality is more important.