• The more you want to love someone, the harder they make it for you.


  • Totally agree with u. What happened to u. What's ur story


  • Can you elaborate? I need more context.


  • @girlnextdoor I'm glad how you're connecting with the feelings I was trying to convey.
    Let's just say it's better left behind. Don't want to feel on the past anymore. Thanks for caring. Really means a lot 💫


  • @edgythoughts-wmv
    The more you feel an attraction towards someone (be it a friendly or romantic one), the harder it's going to be for you to actually be with them. Loving is not easy. It's a very slow process, full of obstacles and only the fittest can survive. It's not as easy as they show in the movies. No offence, but it's the truth.


  • @girlwhois16 Firstly - I don't see why you said 'no offence' but whatever. Second - could it be that you're just being too self-aware? Is it possible that you're over-analyzing these relationships and creating illusionary obstacles? A real obstacle that can keep you away from your friends is your free time. Also I'm sure that if the person you're trying to be with is trying to make it harder then it clearly wasn't meant for you to be friends. As for life screwing you over that can happen but its usually not something that big and if both of you want to be friends then you will be friends. Then again, if not then there surely was something missing from one of you. Third - Loving is a slow process, yes. You can't just start trusting somebody after being with them for a short period of time. As for the 'only the fittest can survive' - nothing is easy. If you don't have the guts to go out, find a partner and try to hold a relationship then you can't say you have tried.
    Of course I can't claim that you are doing/not doing any of the stuff I've listed above as I simply don't know you at all. Also I'm open minded and could be wrong about everything that I said but I'm just stating my opinion. Don't take it as a fact :)


  • @girlwhois16 said in Just realised it today:

    The more you want to love someone, the harder they make it for you.

    Seems pretty true

  • Gamers

    hmm very interesting


  • Well kind of true it seems.


  • @edgythoughts-wmv I really appreciate your response. I won't say you are wrong, but the situation I'm talking about here is very different from the one you've assumed. And you comprehendig my words differently is understandable. That's one of the reasons that I post here. I really appreciate your advice too :-) Thank you so much.


  • @girlwhois16 Well what situation are you in exactly 🙄


  • @neha-sharma I wish I could put that into words. I am actually trying to come out of it and if I start thinking of it all over again, I might spiral back into depression.


  • @girlwhois16 Ok i think i should not dig in deep, well dont give it much thoughts, you will be fine. : )


  • @girlwhois16 well I'm glad I was of any use to you. I hope you're able to forget that what has happened you :) Wish you the best


  • @girlwhois16 well I'm glad I was of any use to you. I hope you're able to forget that what has happened you :) Wish you the best