Feeling lost, sad, lonely, and brokenhearted


  • Why do guys say they love you and want to have forever with you, spend years telling you how much they love you, to one day wake up and they don't know what they want anymore, they don't know if they want you and forever with you. How can someone who loved you so much suddenly not care? Can someone please explain this to me?


  • @llaa We canโ€™t look ahead to say that tomorrow weโ€™ll still feel the way we feel today. The role we play might changes, donโ€™t know what will happen in the future.
    Cheer up! I've been there. Done that. Life becomes exciting if we feel we're on a journey. So set goals as a driving force, not a destination, then see what we can get away with. Itโ€™s like leveling up on our journey ...and, there must be lots of good guys along the way ๐Ÿ˜Š


  • @llaa Sadley to say, it isn't just guys who do that, it is humans. It feels like a betrayal of the heart, and feels also like abandonment of trust and soul, but it seems to happen too often. It isn't right, but sometimes, it is part of changes and people, most anyways, do change (for good or bad). It may not have been your fault, and nothing you did could have stopped this, it is part of their thinking and belief that has changed, for better or worse. We have to keep the love and good we gained from the experience, and move on to find the one true soul mate. It is not easy, but nothing worthwhile is ever easy, and it will be worth it. Hang in there, you are not the only one that is traveling on this journey. Believe in yourself, and move foward, one step at a time.


  • Me too. Sucks bad


  • yeah I had the same problem.I don't why people ignoring me.but I didn't do anything wrong.Actually I feel the same feeling , bored , alone , suffer , depression , anxiety.Still I am smiling through these pains.Here we haven't college.I couldn't go college for 7 months and still lockdown in homes.

    But Today I am still keep smiling throgh my all pains, coz a wiser man said hard roads leads to great destinations .

    Keep trying .


  • @llaa said in Feeling lost, sad, lonely, and brokenhearted:

    Why do guys say they love you and want to have forever with you, spend years telling you how much they love you, to one day wake up and they don't know what they want anymore, they don't know if they want you and forever with you. How can someone who loved you so much suddenly not care? Can someone please explain this to me?

    Besides aspects like wealth and beauty, of course it such kind of words still applied to win a heart in the initial stages of any new relationship. One mind plays, the other has to make the fate sealing decision. We ought to take time and analyze such words and actions and not just rush for them like they were biblical truth. This now is bitter truth but we accept it absolutely meant to be that way. You can't find the ideal partner with everything, they'll always be sth you see in others not in him or her like beauty. It also one perfect cause for adultery . Feelings change with time too and that changes people.