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Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me
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@Yongsi-Brook I would like to know what changed bout him dat made you fall for him when in the past you didnt feel anything towards him(I feel like you crave the attention dat he gave to you as you have mentioned he confessed multiple times tho I could be wrong). What I would suggest is for you to get close to him once more and for a while stop thinking bout getting together with him. Instead work on developing a healthy, friendly, trustworthy and compassionate friendship with him. And once you feel like you ppl have regained the closeness you once had confess bout your real feelings
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Well just let him know how you feel about him. If i were you i would do that. Don't think too much. All the best
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@Yongsi-Brook why are you asian in the first place
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@Saanjh said:
Well just let him know how you feel about him. If i were you i would do that. Don't think too much. All the best
But do you think I deserve him? I literally turned him down and ignored his confessions more than once in the past. I even dated other guys in front him.
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@Cybernatic said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Yongsi-Brook I would like to know what changed bout him dat made you fall for him when in the past you didnt feel anything towards him(I feel like you crave the attention dat he gave to you as you have mentioned he confessed multiple times tho I could be wrong).
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I am not sure tbh.. Maybe its just infatuation.. When we talked last year around Aug, we talked about our old school memories and out of curiosity I asked him why did he even liked me back then (cuz we barely ever talked in school) and when did he actually started liking me? I always thought it was 8th grade cuz thats when the rumors started coming to my ears bout him.. But he told me it was actually 2nd grade.. He started liking me since we were in 2nd grade.. He told me the reason too and it was something quite silly... I expected the reason'd be something special but bleh.. But i think from that time, just the idea that someone could like me for so long.. just the idea that someone could like me despite my flaws made me started to look at him differently when the truth is i dont even known if he even knows any of my flaws nor I know if he even still like me in that way...
I think i'm in love with that idea of love.. that idea of something beautiful that could happen between us... So yeah I'll take your advice and I'm not gonna ask him out.. I think i'll just move on or maybe just keep crushung on him from afar.. I dont want that idea of something beautiful to become something ugly... idk am I making any sense? -
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@Døn said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Don_ said
I tried talking more face to face but I kept feeling so nervous and awkward around him.
Yeah that awkward nervousness, it's better to stay quiet or else you'll ruin it somehow.
It gets really awkward and then you start ignoring the other person because you feel embarrassed 🤦♂️
It's a dumb thing. Very dumb.Wow. You sound like you have gone through it too .
A mere attraction, got over it haha
I envy you.
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@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Døn said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Don_ said
I tried talking more face to face but I kept feeling so nervous and awkward around him.
Yeah that awkward nervousness, it's better to stay quiet or else you'll ruin it somehow.
It gets really awkward and then you start ignoring the other person because you feel embarrassed 🤦♂️
It's a dumb thing. Very dumb.Wow. You sound like you have gone through it too .
A mere attraction, got over it haha
I envy you.
You let your feelings get in the way :)
I take it you still haven't talked about it to him and you haven't moved on either
I never really acknowledged them so maybe it was easy for me.
You on the other hand have known the otherperson for a lot longer than in my case. Hope you decide soon :) -
@Døn said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Døn said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Don_ said
I tried talking more face to face but I kept feeling so nervous and awkward around him.
Yeah that awkward nervousness, it's better to stay quiet or else you'll ruin it somehow.
It gets really awkward and then you start ignoring the other person because you feel embarrassed 🤦♂️
It's a dumb thing. Very dumb.Wow. You sound like you have gone through it too .
A mere attraction, got over it haha
I envy you.
You let your feelings get in the way :)
I take it you still haven't talked about it to him and you haven't moved on either
I never really acknowledged them so maybe it was easy for me.
You on the other hand have known the otherperson for a lot longer than in my case. Hope you decide soon :)Hmm.. yeah I have decided.. I'm going to move on.. wish me good luck.
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@Yongsi-Brook not trying is worse than failure. I believe @Cybernatic has given a really nice suggestion .
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@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Døn said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Døn said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Don_ said
I tried talking more face to face but I kept feeling so nervous and awkward around him.
Yeah that awkward nervousness, it's better to stay quiet or else you'll ruin it somehow.
It gets really awkward and then you start ignoring the other person because you feel embarrassed 🤦♂️
It's a dumb thing. Very dumb.Wow. You sound like you have gone through it too .
A mere attraction, got over it haha
I envy you.
You let your feelings get in the way :)
I take it you still haven't talked about it to him and you haven't moved on either
I never really acknowledged them so maybe it was easy for me.
You on the other hand have known the otherperson for a lot longer than in my case. Hope you decide soon :)Hmm.. yeah I have decided.. I'm going to move on.. wish me good luck.
Goodluck Yongsi, you'll be fine ;)
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@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
But do you think I deserve him? I literally turned him down and ignored his confessions more than once in the past. I even dated other guys in front him.
I know you said you were going to move on but I just saw this. Yes you deserve him. The past is the past. We make a lot of stupid decisions when we were younger and tbh I have been in the same situation as you. I get why you want to just move on as to not ruin the wonderful feelings and ideas you have now. Who knows maybe your paths will come together in the future :)
Good luck to you!
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@Ash005 That is not me, vro
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@Cyberdyne vro? Not u? Whose suggestion it was then ?
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@Cyberdyne oh wait lol it was @Cybernatic
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@Ash005 said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Yongsi-Brook not trying is worse than failure. I believe @Cybernatic has given a really nice suggestion .
Hmm.. maybe I'll wait till Feb, say maybe till Valentine... if I cant move on and still harbour those feelings, I'll approach him.. Though I dont think I'll ask him out, I'll try doing what @Cybernatic advised.
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@Sassy said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
But do you think I deserve him? I literally turned him down and ignored his confessions more than once in the past. I even dated other guys in front him.
I know you said you were going to move on but I just saw this. Yes you deserve him. The past is the past. We make a lot of stupid decisions when we were younger and tbh I have been in the same situation as you. I get why you want to just move on as to not ruin the wonderful feelings and ideas you have now. Who knows maybe your paths will come together in the future :)
Good luck to you!
Thank you ❤❤. Really appreciate it.
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@Ash005 said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Cyberdyne vro? Not u? Whose suggestion it was then ?
😅 Ok this is funny!
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@Yongsi-Brook well talk to him and tell him how u feel best of luck
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@Yongsi-Brook said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Ash005 said in Im having a crush on someone who once used to have a crush on me:
@Yongsi-Brook not trying is worse than failure. I believe @Cybernatic has given a really nice suggestion .
Hmm.. maybe I'll wait till Feb, say maybe till Valentine... if I cant move on and still harbour those feelings, I'll approach him..
Yet undecided 😂
Hope it goes well 😎