Suicidal people are just angels who want to go home

  • LurkersForLife

    I just want to sleep, I'm tired, A coma would be nice or amnesia anything just to get rid of these thoughts


  • @Rissa_TheBest said in Suicidal people are just angels who want to go home:

    @Dog very true.. But if I don't believe in that (the better option) what shall I believe?

    You just need to practise regularly to feel less pain...to become like a robot to feel less pain

    That we all live a long painful life and in the end we die and go to heaven or hell?

    Changing lifestyle and mindset will most likely help.

    very possibly, heaven and hell exist. But i think it is very complicated who will go to heaven or hell. And i think the controller of our destiny will be very flexible in deciding who will go to hell and heaven...

    Now, it is also very possible that heaven and hell doesn't exist. So we need some basis to believe in them?
    And I have personally found out very good reasons why heaven and hell most likely exist which is very inspiring...

    it started with my personal suffering in life. So i needed to focus on the unseen world of spirituality/religiosity and to detach my mind from the material world

    It is also very unlikely that a very complex and organized intelligent creature like humans exist without any higher consciousness and higher goal

    Life is completely dependent on cruelty:
    Approximately 40-50%(i guess) kids bully at school which indicates how inherently sadist and dangerous humanity is.

    Cruelty,sorrow and injustice are essential parts of how life functions and it is part of the heavenly design(Someone intentionally designed reality this way): A life must feed on another life and oppress another life to survive, even in cases it happens within a species.

    Consciously detaching from reality might help even if temporarily....


  • @Tarique-Shaikh The guy I'm talking about likes me back, but thank you for explaining that.


  • @Dog I see. Um, thanks for explaining that, I think I understand a bit more and btw you know how to wright some inspiring words.. that's besides the point though.


  • @Rissa_TheBest Gyil....for a boy you want to live in coma thats sound funny.......i know some people cant handle this situation..i was also like you when my love of my life left me....i was 17 y.o back then.....and i was crying day and night..at that time i also want to die.....i just want to tell you that .... dont feel sad for a boy...he is not the one .... find a guy who will makes you feel happy...who can take care of yours.......not a guy who makes you feel sad.....plzzz dont think about him....move forward..


  • @Tarique-Shaikh You don't understand what I'm trying to tell you, He doesn't make me sad, and plus I truly think he is the one, I understand what your trying to tell me, Thank you but, he's not the problem, it's just... everything else.


  • @Rissa_TheBest said in Suicidal people are just angels who want to go home:

    @Dog I see. Um, thanks for explaining that, I think I understand a bit more and btw you know how to wright some inspiring words.. that's besides the point though.

    Sometimes I am depressed,tired and crazy and i say and write things in a disorderly manner which may not make sense :relieved:


  • @Rissa_TheBest ok girl.....keep writing here and keep telling us how you feel


  • LurkersForLife

    Sometimes I wanna not exist, I don't wanna die and I'm not suicidal, I just want to not exist. But what I noticed is that Death seems more inviting then life and you don't truly understand depression until you can't stand your own presence in an empty room, but I miss me, the old me, the happy me, the smiling me, the bright me, the laughing me, the gone me..


  • @Rissa_TheBest I understand completely. I miss me too sometimes


  • @Rissa_TheBest said in Suicidal people are just angels who want to go home:

    Sometimes I wanna not exist, I don't wanna die and I'm not suicidal, I just want to not exist. But what I noticed is that Death seems more inviting then life and you don't truly understand depression until you can't stand your own presence in an empty room, but I miss me, the old me, the happy me, the smiling me, the bright me, the laughing me, the gone me..

    Lol. Same has happened to me. may be it happens to most people. and sometimes i behave drunk when depressed wasting time writing meaningless things...

    may be fear of afterlife stops many people from suicide ig


  • @Sassygirl We all lose hope eventually, I'm gathering that your sad too?


  • @Dog yeah it might be a stage everyone goes through and I know everyone's gonna feel deep pain at least once in their life but something about this feeling doesn't feel normal..


  • @Rissa_TheBest Yeah I have dealt with depression my whole life. It's nice that society is gaining a better understanding about depression and people are more open to talk about it.

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  • @Rissa_TheBest said in Suicidal people are just angels who want to go home:

    everyone's gonna feel deep pain at least once in their life but something about this feeling doesn't feel normal..

    No! everyone probably doesnt face depression no matter how cruel life is...
    copy pasting....
    "Ask the population that doesn’t suffer from depression...

    ….the Kaluli people.

    What’s their secret? Keep reading to find out.

    It started when an anthropologist in 1986 scoured the Highlands of New Guinea to study the prevalence of depression.

    He wasn’t really expecting much. But what he discovered after surveying 2,000 Kaluli tribe members, shocked his expectations.

    His discovery?

    That the Kaluli people have virtually ZERO depression (in exception of one case).

    That’s amazing. Especially when we consider they don’t have ANY of our medicine or comforts.

    They also suffer from much more stressful life events than us (high infant mortality rates, violent deaths, and parasitic infections).

    Yet, they have WAY lower depression rates than almost every civilized population on Earth.

    The same was found with other Hunter Gatherers like the Thai-Lao of Thailand, Toraja of Indonesia, and even the Amish.

    How is it possible that primitive people — who live much harder lives than we do — rarely suffer from depression?

    The secret lies in their lifestyle habits.

    More specifically, two things:

    Exercise
    Hobbies
    Let’s breakdown the first lifestyle habit:

    Exercise

    Almost 100% of Kaluli people get adequate exercise.

    In comparison, only 23% of Americans get ‘adequate’ exercise.

    What’s one major side effect of not exercising?

    Depression.

    As researchers recently discovered, exercise is AS effective as an antidepressant in treating depression (without the side effects)...."(Source: https://www.quora.com/How-do-I-avoid-getting-depressed)
    "

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