@Dog very true.. But if I don't believe in that (the better option) what shall I believe?
You just need to practise regularly to feel less pain...to become like a robot to feel less pain
That we all live a long painful life and in the end we die and go to heaven or hell?
Changing lifestyle and mindset will most likely help.
very possibly, heaven and hell exist. But i think it is very complicated who will go to heaven or hell. And i think the controller of our destiny will be very flexible in deciding who will go to hell and heaven...
Now, it is also very possible that heaven and hell doesn't exist. So we need some basis to believe in them?
And I have personally found out very good reasons why heaven and hell most likely exist which is very inspiring...
it started with my personal suffering in life. So i needed to focus on the unseen world of spirituality/religiosity and to detach my mind from the material world
It is also very unlikely that a very complex and organized intelligent creature like humans exist without any higher consciousness and higher goal
Life is completely dependent on cruelty:
Approximately 40-50%(i guess) kids bully at school which indicates how inherently sadist and dangerous humanity is.
Cruelty,sorrow and injustice are essential parts of how life functions and it is part of the heavenly design(Someone intentionally designed reality this way): A life must feed on another life and oppress another life to survive, even in cases it happens within a species.
Consciously detaching from reality might help even if temporarily....